Is it normal that i like wearing high heels and i'm a guy

I don't know why, but I have always had a high heel fetish. I'm a short guy at 5'7" so I guess I'm kind of insecure about being short. I feel a bit intimidated by taller women, or even short/medium height women in high heels. When a woman is around my height or taller than me I feel very insecure about my masculinity because I've always held a strong belief (maybe society is to blame) that men should be taller than women

It's gotten so bad that I actively seek out women in high heels, wedges, boots, stilettos, and platforms. When a woman around me is wearing height altering footwear, I become paranoid and must steal glances at how good her shoes look on her feet (and how tall it makes her). I have a high heel fetish where I am turned on by the mere thought of a woman in heels, and I love watching videos of women walking in heels or crushing objects while wearing heels

The fact that really makes me love heels is of course how tall it makes a woman look, and also that heels are a dangerous weapon. Often I've had fantasies about a woman standing on my stomach in heels and digging the sharp heel into my bellybutton. It's so erotic (I guess I'm sort of a masochist as well)

Now the part about me wearing heels. Secretly, I have a high heel collection in a nondescript box in my closet. I have 2 sexy high heels, 1 platform heel ("stripper heel"), 1 stiletto boot, and 1 wedge shoe. I love these shoes so much they are incredibly sexy. Being a short guy at 5'7", I've come to love wearing heels in secret because I know society discriminates against men who wear height altering footwear. Not just that but men who wear shoes to look taller, like lifts, have to do so secretly and shamefully knowing they would be ridiculed if they got caught. This is a blatant double standard in society. Me being a short man I would enjoy the liberty of wearing sexy heels and feeling good about myself too (I also pride myself on a having a nice behind and shaved legs)

That being said, I do often feel a little feminine in day to day situations. I'm definitely not gay, but I am shorter than most guys and just about average height for girls. I have a feminine body, I'm skinny with big hips, have no upper body strength, and my hair is often pretty long. To make matters worse, my cousins are 6'1" and 6'4" and I always feel like a midget next to them

So, basically if you did read all that, bless your soul. But if you didn't that's ok too, all I'm trying to say is I'm a short guy and I feel insecure around taller women (or shorter women wearing heels) and so I've developed this high heel fetish, and I sometimes like to wear high heels in my spare time especially because I'm often surrounded by big manly men and I have the body of a woman. I also don't know why I love taller women they are just so sexy but at the same time so intimidating. Thanks for reading

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  • My_name_

    I think it's normal because heels were originally made for men anyway, so it's pretty normal

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  • jamesinheels

    all men should wear high heels.A lot of men are just afraid to let people know that they want to.When i wear my heels in public people just act the same around me and most dont even notice.I think it would be terrible to pass your life by wanting to do something as simple as wear a pair of heels and then years later look back and regret not being yourself.Wearing high heels gives me a great feeling of satisfaction

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    • pumpedup

      Right on! I won't wear heels in public, but to each their own. Heels kick ass! I love pumps, and i love those feminine pumps with bows and other embellishments on them. I also love mary jane pumps, with the strap that goes over my feet. Sweet shoes!!

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  • KatieLiz

    Don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks :D

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  • LilHobbit

    I own 3 pairs of heels and I don't care what anyone thinks, I'm happy. Wear what you want and don't let anyone stop you from being you.
    Also there needs to be a Facebook group so that all of our fellow men in heels can know that they're not alone.

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    • pumpedup

      go to the following webpage.

      hhplace.org

      We are men, and we love our heels. have fun!

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  • Iloveheels

    Man i am 19 quite short and i feel exactly as you do.I love wearing high heels but i never wear them in public because i am afraid of what people are going to say.My dream is to have a relationship with a man like you who loves high heels,hopefully I can find him.Anyway it's 100% normal to wear heels despite the gender if you want to do it just do it brother!

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  • pumpedup

    I am male, heterosexual, and also wear high heels. My fetish is quite an obsession. I have over 100 pair of them. I wear mostly classic pumps. I have a few pair of flats, 30 pair of high-heel boots, and like a few pair of kitten-heels. I buy 99% of my shoes second-hand, like at thrift stores and ebay. I wear them just for fetish reasons. They are very fun to wear. Most of them are sooo comfortable on my feet. Others, like my 5" ones, are dangerous to walk in. I have almost taken a tumble with them on my feet many times. The best thing about wearing heels is that they help form my calves. I am going to buy a treadmill soon, and i will wear some heels while walking on it. My calves will be nice and formed then! It will also help me get used to wearing the 5" pumps, and i will be able to walk around the house with them on. The almond-toe shape of a high heel pump is the most beautiful, most feminine thing in the world. It's awe-inspiring, and a sexual turn on. Having said all of that, it's obvious to me that you are just like myself. We have a fetish. There is nothing abnormal with a man wearing high heels. You do it at home, i am sure. So do i. I never would wear them out in public. It's just a fetish. It's all good!

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  • Stefie

    It's normal as far as I'm concerned. I'm a male cross dresser/bisexual and I've been dressing completely as a woman for years. I am open with my feminine side so I am always dressed as a woman.
    High heels are my favorite shoes and I have a bunch and I will buy even more. I love my heels.

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    • pumpedup

      Awesome! I loooove classic pumps! They're the best!

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  • truelife23

    well hunny I can relate to this post altho im taller than you almost 6'2 lol but I wear heels too not so much out side the home but I just feel so femine and sexy in them .
    I feel ya so ya your nomal sugar .
    Wear what ya want be unique and original ok?
    I do pride my self whit nice legs to and re end so go for it and rock those heels sugar im a guy to lolls
    screw what the world say be oyu not THEM !

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  • Hornyforfeet

    I love wearing heels too, makes me feel sexy especially when wearing my sisters after painting my nails.

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  • Bumblebee2013

    Can I borrow them? I'm 5ft2... But am also a girl :D

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  • Thatguy777

    I'm 18 and I'm 5'3. I don't want to fucking hear it. I find a girl that's shorter than me maybe once a year? Seriously, I've never had a girlfriend because of it, and sometimes I wish I was dead because of it

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    • pumpedup

      C'mon, man. Don't feel that way. You need to get some counseling. You're only 18. So what? I was 19 when i lost my virginity. Some of us guys just do it later than others. It doesn't mean we aren't going to find love. You need to talk to someone. There are lots of things you can do to make up for a small height. I am no paul bunyon, either. I am about 5'6. You need to talk to someone, to get someone to set your mind right. Don't wish you were dead. Just wish you were taller. You can make up for it. Don't give up hope!

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  • 3rdXsTheCharm

    Go for it!

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  • Jungboy

    I’ve been doing it for over a decade. I love shaving my body, painting my toes and putting on sexy stripper shoes. I can masturbate looking at it. It’s a strong and consistent turn on and I don’t think it would be if it were normal. It’s the feeling that you’re out there in a weird place that would be largely seen as perverted that produces the erotic kick as well as the shame. The only women in my life who were even close to okay with it were receiving money for their relationship with me, one way or another. They also told me my penis wasn’t small despite my repeated problem of having it slip out during intercourse. I’ve come to terms with the fact that this is how I’ve learned to express the feminine side I hide from the world. I don’t really hold it against myself and am much more self-accepting than I used to be. But seriously, folks, if it were normal, would the originator of this thread need all this attention and encouragement?

    But here’s the real punchline - being normal only means you’re like most other people it entitles you to nothing - except maybe easier high school days. I’d much rather be different. Different, i.e, ABNORMAL is interesting! You want normal? Look around...

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  • Histiletto

    The part that is not normal is having to wear only what others have decided you should like and wear. By nature, we each have our own personality with our own set of perspectives and tastes. For personal items, such as apparel, nature made it possible for a person to choose the items they want to adorn their appearance. For others to dictate what they want everyone to wear, violates this natural procedure and the act of making others do something is another form of bullying and/or enslavement.

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  • LisaCar

    That is fine. I have been wearing women's shoes and clothes since I was 3. I am very lucky that I am a guy and I am 5'2' tall and wiegh 95 pounds. In ladies high heels I wear a 7, which is hard to find because most women are size 7. I love to be taller so I have 5" stiletto heels so I am 5'7". I have curves like a woman. I have a penis that is less than 2 inches long and smaller around than my pinky, and I have girl sized hands. Thank God I am not able to get hard. My penis is not where a man's penis is it is more between my legs where a girls thing is. I can only potty like a girl, no peeing like a guy for this girl. I love being pretty and feminine, it makes it easier to get men to notice me and want me.. I am glad I almost don't have a penis. I love to have a man on top of me making love to me. If I dressed like a guy I don't think I would get many men want me. Sex with men is so awesome, I don't know what sex is like with a girl, but I bet it is not nearly as good as it is with a man.

    LISA

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  • crotchboots-m

    I wear fetish boots and leather all the time. I've found that the really kewl folks...both strangers and the ones u know better...will tend overlook your fringe habits if they basically value you as a person. Just don't over do it

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    • Kentboots

      Love 2 meet u in ur boots xx

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  • oneepiphany

    Have you watched this video? These men dance in heels and they are xucking awesome!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzRnQkapZik

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  • Seustewart

    It's just your inner homo coming out.

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    • crotchboots-m

      Ain't u the smug azz mofo

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  • CommonR94

    Alright if you feel like you need to feel taller don't go for heels go for platforms you can wear those as a man and not have society looking at you weird.

    I made a rather nice pair with a pair of converse and 2 pairs of sandals that were two sizes too big and a lot of shoe glue.

    Only things people say about my platforms are: Cool! or Aren't you tall enough (I'm 5'11 without them)

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    • kleppers

      Agree totally!! I've been wearing 3-4 inch platform Buffalo London sneaker clogs for the last couple of months at my work (i'm a university teacher) an have had only positive comments so far, bioth from faculty as well as from students.

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  • SexualCucumber

    High heels were first made for men.

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  • GreyWulfen

    I wouldn't consider it "normal", but do what you like!

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  • volvonut84

    As long as they're Jimmy Choo...you go girl!!!

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