IIN that I like to be slapped or spit on during sex?

You're NORMAL! It's uncommon for people to admit they have a kinky side. It's nice to see someone on here that also likes it rough. Sadly, I am also looking for my BDSM soulmate; searching for the ONE who will make my every fantasy a reality. Of course, roughness between 2 people who share love is different than 2 people who just like rough/ painful sex.

For me, I draw the line at hard punches, kicks, and out-right beatings (I like hair pulling, choking, bondage, bites, hot wax and oil, being tossed around and/or thrown onto the floor/ into the walls and furniture... and the occasional face slap, deep bite, or deep scratch is ok). Things that bruise and bring blood is SO stimulating, but I don't like anything that will hurt so badly that it spoils the moment.

Of course, all of what you like and do is between you and your lover. Talk openly to your guy(s) about what you like, and what he is willing to do. Maybe he will slowly fulfill all your fetishes. - Have fun.