I can relate to you on some levels - I like being alone and have weeks where I've been very secluded and enjoyed it! Because of this, I never know about any outings my friends have and I don't really care.
However, I don't think I feel lonliness as you do so my advice is thus: make the effort to go out frequently with your friends! It can be a chore, I understand, but once you are out it's all good! You'll benefit from regular outings, I'm sure. It's not so bad once you're out with them =]
I have that sort of problem with swimming - my mum wants to take us all to the swimming pool and I H-A-T-E it ALL until I acutally get there xD So I force myself to make the effort and go =]
Also, perhaps be in more contact with your friends - text, call, msn them more! Facebook can be good (but I hate it xD).
Good luck! And remember - you're never alone because your friends want to hang out with you! xxxxxx
Is it normal that i like to be alone but hate to be lonely?
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I can relate to you on some levels - I like being alone and have weeks where I've been very secluded and enjoyed it! Because of this, I never know about any outings my friends have and I don't really care.
However, I don't think I feel lonliness as you do so my advice is thus: make the effort to go out frequently with your friends! It can be a chore, I understand, but once you are out it's all good! You'll benefit from regular outings, I'm sure. It's not so bad once you're out with them =]
I have that sort of problem with swimming - my mum wants to take us all to the swimming pool and I H-A-T-E it ALL until I acutally get there xD So I force myself to make the effort and go =]
Also, perhaps be in more contact with your friends - text, call, msn them more! Facebook can be good (but I hate it xD).
Good luck! And remember - you're never alone because your friends want to hang out with you! xxxxxx