Is it normal that i like the idea of sex but i dont enjoy it?

I love the idea of sex. I love the idea of body on body and pleasure. But whenever I'm with someone sexually I just feel bored and I dont enjoy it. I go through it so my partner is pleasured and i fake it. I've tried self masturbation but still nothing. I just want to know is it normal?

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Based on 72 votes (36 yes)
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Comments ( 10 )
  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    Find someone who knows how to make ya scream, you deserve it.

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  • alicelikefireflies

    Perhaps you just need to find something that turns you on. Maybe normal sex just doesn't do it. Some of the things you could try are different positions, roleplay or bondage. Everyone has got their kink. Perhaps you just need to find yours.

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  • Holzman_67

    maybe the anticipation is greater than the outcome in which case you should seek a better lover.

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  • Razaa

    Girl, some boys just can't lay it down. You need stop blaming yourself and get yourself a man.

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  • bobbyray

    start fucking horses

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  • Yoosername

    if you're a girl i recommend trying a BC pill that will increase your libido (make you horny)

    it felt like my life just started once i started that pill

    but be careful, some pills do the opposite and kill your drive!

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  • ILI1440

    True, maybe you are with the wrong sex...assuming your a girl, try watching some lesbian porn and see if that turns you on and you can see yourself doing that.. Otherwise I am almost the same way, i never have been able to orgasam during sex, like other women to. Then it gets boring after that.. I always have to fake it, it sucks.

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  • KingRabbit

    You are clearly doing it wrong.

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  • green_boogers

    Maybe you are a lesbian and don't know it.

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  • Mersaphe

    Do you have any fetishes? Something that really turns you on?

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