It is the concept of damsels in distress. Men find pride and satisfaction in being there for a girl who is in need. I have found myself attracted to vulnerable women, not so I could take advantage of them, but that I could be there for them, and in a way, "fix" them. I also enjoy when a woman relies on me in a relationship, it makes me feel like I matter. Moreover, since I am lean, I am more attracted to women of a build similar to me, because I feel she would "fit." Maybe the only difference between you and me is I love independent women. More than dependent ones. There is NOTHING that beats spending the rest of your life with a woman who could walk out anytime, could hold her own, yet chooses to stay with you. That's priceless
But you... seem different. It seems like you have a conservative and old-fashioned ideal for women. But still... there is something off about your post that makes it disturbing. It is like I can envision you many years down the road to be the kind of person involved in domestic violence.
Maybe you have miscommunicated what you actually intended to imply. A topic like this needs to be handled and conveyed delicately, if you don't -- well, the responses are your result
Is it normal that I like skinny women over healthy strong women.
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It is the concept of damsels in distress. Men find pride and satisfaction in being there for a girl who is in need. I have found myself attracted to vulnerable women, not so I could take advantage of them, but that I could be there for them, and in a way, "fix" them. I also enjoy when a woman relies on me in a relationship, it makes me feel like I matter. Moreover, since I am lean, I am more attracted to women of a build similar to me, because I feel she would "fit." Maybe the only difference between you and me is I love independent women. More than dependent ones. There is NOTHING that beats spending the rest of your life with a woman who could walk out anytime, could hold her own, yet chooses to stay with you. That's priceless
But you... seem different. It seems like you have a conservative and old-fashioned ideal for women. But still... there is something off about your post that makes it disturbing. It is like I can envision you many years down the road to be the kind of person involved in domestic violence.
Maybe you have miscommunicated what you actually intended to imply. A topic like this needs to be handled and conveyed delicately, if you don't -- well, the responses are your result