IIN that I like my husband to treat me rough even though I was molested

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago | pl

    Yes it's normal for someone who was molested to enjoy this. I am the same way. It's very unhealthy tho.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      I don’t want it any other way. I like to be very submissive to him. I don’t think that I can change.

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      • nikkiclaire
        5 years ago | pl

        That's why it's not healthy. I used to be the same way but I am learning how to be treated well and loved. You are subconsciously continuing the abuse due to shame. At least thats what I am told.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          You were this way with your husband or boyfriends?

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago | pl

        I understand. But PLEASE, try to find someone who loves you. You may not believe this, but you really don’t deserve to be hurt like that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          He loves me or he wouldn’t be with me at home.

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          • NobodysNormal
            5 years ago | pl

            There could be other reasons. Does he manipulate you or force you to do things you're not comfortable with? If he does, that's not love because it's all about him and what he wants, not about you or what you want. You're both people at the end of the day, and both deserve to be threated like equals.

            There's nothing wrong with liking rough sex, as long as you both are into it. Do you have a safeword to stop it if you're not comfortable?

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago | pl

            Love doesn't rape you. He's just been brainwashing you to believe that and you've been brainwashing yourself to believe it too. You're innocent, you don't deserve this.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago | pl

              He tells me that he loves me. Sometimes it’s while he’s rough with me. I know that he wants me to act like I like it, so I do. He gets what he needs from me so I wait for him and make sure that I meet all of his needs. I may feel like I am worth nothing but I have my man and I need to keep him by being totally dominated by him

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