Is it normal that i like men 25 years older than me?

Ever since i was like 10 ive liked men like way older than me like in their 40s. Ive liked george clooney , rob schnieder , and now i have obsession with robert downey jr. And its not just movie stars. Ive like my 4th grade teacher and and pe coach. I like my moms friends husband and now i like her bf. I can fall im love with these older men like this but i can with teens my own age. So 5 years later, im still liking older men. My dad doesnt live with me but i do have good relation ship with him but i dont see im a lot but a good amount. I mean they arent ugly older men they are handsome. but i only like teens my age when i think they like me and they are cute.

Is It Normal?
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  • I can certainly say its very common (George Clooney *drool*). There are some widely-held beliefs that it does come about as a result of desire for fatherly affection (ie. not enough daddy-time as a child). But even if thats true, does it really matter?
    As long as you're happy, in control of your own life, and not feeling pressured or trapped by anyone/anything, its all good. :)

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  • It's normal well at least I think so , I don't like guys 25 years older but I do like guys older than me ( I'm in my mid teens btw)

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  • i was 22 with a 57year old now im 23 and with a 30yearold i perfer older men but i can date youngermen or same age men aswell... but im madly inlove with the 30 yearold guy he is my fiance!... we r getting married next year hopefuly!...

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    • Yeah.aww Im Happy for you!!! See when im older ill probly like people my own age i guess i just dont like teens my age like that

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  • This is actually very common. You have the right to be with anybody you like once you're not braking the law.

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  • ...Rob Schneider?

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    • Lol i know weird but in that movie hot chick i found him strangely sexy when he was playing a gurl lol

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  • Oh. So it has to be legal? *cough*

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  • Where do you stand on Bret Michaels?

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  • There's nothing really special about it, it's pretty normal and there are lots and lots of stories like this one asked on IIN. Just do a search, you'll see what I mean.

    The thought of dating a man my father's age really grosses me out, but that's just my preference. I've known a couple of women who have married guys their father's age. They were happy for a while, but eventually the difference in age became a major problem and both marriages ended in divorce.

    Do whatever, as long as it's legal and not harming anyone else physically or emotionally.

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