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I'm a virgin and I have no desire to have sex at all. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and he gets frustrated with me because I'll do foreplay but not sex. I masturbate all the time. I love it. I love my boyfriend too and I'm attracted to him, I just don't have a desire to have intercourse with him. Is that normal?
In my opinion it's normal.The whole world thinks a couple must have sex.Been the same way.Attracted to the opposite sex but didn't want to have sex.Preferred to masturbate.Boyfriend doesn't need to be frustrated.He can masturbate too.If you see my comment have a look at these two links and tell me what you think:
http://elitedaily.com/dating/sex/masturbating-better-than-sex/1564990/
http://www.puckermob.com/relationships/7-reasons-why-sex-isnt-as-important-as-you-think
You're fine.
There is nothing wrong with holding on to your virginity for someone you want to spend it on.
If he badgers you about it... you may need to consider that he's only looking out for his own sexual interests and doesn't care about your feelings.
A real man accepts when a woman says "no".
give him a fleshlight?
besides even though you've been together for 3 years, all of that has been during your teens.
he may want to get laid but it doesn't mean you're emotionally ready for it. not to mention your body might not be ready either in case something goes wrong and you get pregnant*
*normally the female body isn't *fully* developed until a woman is in her early to mid 20s. so getting pregnant before the uterus is fully grown can lead to premature births.