If it works for you and your guy, that's great, and it's all that matters. Whether anyone else believes it's normal or weird is irrelevant.
I can understand some women preferring it for a range of practical reasons and because they like to watch.
I'm a guy, and it's not something I'd ever get into. It seems to me pretty porny — and it's normal there only because of the weird convention that male actors need to prove that they've had an orgasm. I've also always wondered if guys like it because they feel the need to prove their potency or some peculiar psychological shit going on about marking "their" woman (sort of like a dog pissing on a lamppost).
Maybe I'm weird, but I've always considered coming in a woman's mouth definitely second-best, with a hand-job to orgasm a far-distant third. As for sex with a condom, I'd rather just go without, thank you very much. (But then I've never been into casual sex, so the STI issue has never been a thing in my relationships.)
Is it normal that I like it when the guy pulls out and cums on my belly?
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If it works for you and your guy, that's great, and it's all that matters. Whether anyone else believes it's normal or weird is irrelevant.
I can understand some women preferring it for a range of practical reasons and because they like to watch.
I'm a guy, and it's not something I'd ever get into. It seems to me pretty porny — and it's normal there only because of the weird convention that male actors need to prove that they've had an orgasm. I've also always wondered if guys like it because they feel the need to prove their potency or some peculiar psychological shit going on about marking "their" woman (sort of like a dog pissing on a lamppost).
Maybe I'm weird, but I've always considered coming in a woman's mouth definitely second-best, with a hand-job to orgasm a far-distant third. As for sex with a condom, I'd rather just go without, thank you very much. (But then I've never been into casual sex, so the STI issue has never been a thing in my relationships.)