Well, I'm not interested in catching a disease, nor am I interested in having a crisis pregnancy. I don't think I could feel comfortable having sex even within marriage without condoms, because it probably wouldn't be a good idea to get pregnant at 49 years of age. I'm also not interested in any kind of physical, or sexual intimacy outside of a loving, committed, monogamous relationship. I'm actually contemplating being chaste, and not having sex outside of marriage. I don't think that it would be a bad thing if I ended up remaining single for the rest of my life.
I'm not going to lie to you, I have always thought the actual exchange of bodily fluids was gross, because it can spread disease, and cause pregnancy.
One thing I think you, and I can agree on that I really appreciate is how heinous, and disgusting cheating is. My first ex-husband cheated on me with a woman with whom he worked. The bitter irony of it all is that she was hired for a job that people had been encouraging me to apply. Anyway, the point is that I've been cheated on, but I'm happy to say that I've never cheated on anyone, not even when I was in a toxic relationship.
You probably know that my most recent ex-boyfriend was a verbally, and emotionally abusive person. He used to tell me that all of his exes had cheated on him, and in the beginning that made me sad. However, after living with him for about six months I started to understand why someone would cheat on him, and how they could perhaps even be driven to do so.
Sorry for the rant. The bottom line is I have a lot of trust issues, and I will probably continue to do so until I've worked through my own personal issues, and feel confident that I will not attract, or accept people who are toxic.
I don't know man, there's better contraception than something that literally desensitizes sex, loads of different alternatives. From snips to pills, there's loads. So pregnancy on that part really isn't a thing I'm worried about.
All of the times I've had sex it was with someone who I was sure of that was clean. Wether we got tested before or they were a virgin at the time. Save for one double-one night stand, but I was safe that night.
Hey, just do whatever feels right for you. If that's the path you wanna follow, go for it. Nothing bad about it.
Oh yeah, if you've seen how aggressive I get on this site towards cheaters then yeah, you know. My first girlfriend decided to cheat on me after being together for 3 years or so, I was her first and she wanted to experience more than just one person.
Yeah you posted it before, someone being abusive in any way can drive a person to do irrational things but I don't really think it makes it okay to cheat if you know what I mean?
No problem at all. I don't mind reading. Trust is to be earned, not to be given I guess. Although I did always trust my partners, even if some betrayed it.
Is it normal that I like it when the guy pulls out and cums on my belly?
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Well, I'm not interested in catching a disease, nor am I interested in having a crisis pregnancy. I don't think I could feel comfortable having sex even within marriage without condoms, because it probably wouldn't be a good idea to get pregnant at 49 years of age. I'm also not interested in any kind of physical, or sexual intimacy outside of a loving, committed, monogamous relationship. I'm actually contemplating being chaste, and not having sex outside of marriage. I don't think that it would be a bad thing if I ended up remaining single for the rest of my life.
I'm not going to lie to you, I have always thought the actual exchange of bodily fluids was gross, because it can spread disease, and cause pregnancy.
One thing I think you, and I can agree on that I really appreciate is how heinous, and disgusting cheating is. My first ex-husband cheated on me with a woman with whom he worked. The bitter irony of it all is that she was hired for a job that people had been encouraging me to apply. Anyway, the point is that I've been cheated on, but I'm happy to say that I've never cheated on anyone, not even when I was in a toxic relationship.
You probably know that my most recent ex-boyfriend was a verbally, and emotionally abusive person. He used to tell me that all of his exes had cheated on him, and in the beginning that made me sad. However, after living with him for about six months I started to understand why someone would cheat on him, and how they could perhaps even be driven to do so.
Sorry for the rant. The bottom line is I have a lot of trust issues, and I will probably continue to do so until I've worked through my own personal issues, and feel confident that I will not attract, or accept people who are toxic.
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I don't know man, there's better contraception than something that literally desensitizes sex, loads of different alternatives. From snips to pills, there's loads. So pregnancy on that part really isn't a thing I'm worried about.
All of the times I've had sex it was with someone who I was sure of that was clean. Wether we got tested before or they were a virgin at the time. Save for one double-one night stand, but I was safe that night.
Hey, just do whatever feels right for you. If that's the path you wanna follow, go for it. Nothing bad about it.
Oh yeah, if you've seen how aggressive I get on this site towards cheaters then yeah, you know. My first girlfriend decided to cheat on me after being together for 3 years or so, I was her first and she wanted to experience more than just one person.
Yeah you posted it before, someone being abusive in any way can drive a person to do irrational things but I don't really think it makes it okay to cheat if you know what I mean?
No problem at all. I don't mind reading. Trust is to be earned, not to be given I guess. Although I did always trust my partners, even if some betrayed it.