Is it normal that i like guys' look but not the other things?

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First of all sorry for my english mistakes its not my main language .I'm confused about my heterosexuality(i am female). When it comes to romantic and sexual relationships i like the way males looking(their eyes,chin,face,body and everything...) and i dream about males while masturbating but when i talk to them in real life i feel disgust. I like to talk with them only in my mind. I like girls thinking style more in romantic relationships and little turn on by their look(but not as much as males). I always wanted one of my close frieds would be a male so that i can date him. Should i date with boys or girls in this case? And sorry for being sexist i hope nobody will offended.

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  • mauzi
    4 years ago | pl

    Cute
    Homoromantic heterosexual?
    But sound like you're basically bi with a preference for men (sexually).

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  • MegaOof
    4 years ago | pl

    Maybe a fem guy? Or a trans guy.

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    • Sangwoo
      4 years ago | pl

      Not trans but i have just learn the term fem guy,it would be nice actually.i will search that thank you 😊

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago | pl

    Perhaps, it honestly depends what type of guys you've been talking to, OP. What it is about guys that has disgusted you?

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    • Sangwoo
      4 years ago | pl

      I know they are not bad persons and i dont hate them or something.just when i talk with a boy i feel like he is not emotional enough for me and the way they see the situations their point of wiew or even their preferences about everything turn me off and i feel(i dont try to say they are disgusting i just feel that way) anxietic,disgust... but when i spend time with my girlfriends i like their character and want to be with them ,i can dream myself marrying with a girl.btw thanks for answering.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago | pl

        Thanks for your response. I think this is interesting. I guess I would venture to say that all men are dispassionate, or unemotional. I think the more different people you meet the more you will that there is variety.

        I think what Mrown suggested is rather interesting. I wish I could give you better answers.

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  • Mrown
    4 years ago | pl

    You're probably varioriented. It means your sexual orientation is different from your romantic orientation. You're heterosexual and homoromantic.

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  • McBean
    4 years ago | pl

    Your solution is hidden in the way you have stated the problem. You should date women, and fuck men.

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    • LloydAsher
      4 years ago | pl

      Solution get used to guys. Because if your own brain is telling you to procreate congratulations your cis like 90% of the world.

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    • Sangwoo
      4 years ago | pl

      Could be for now but i want to marry and be loyal to a person one day. Thanks for your answer

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      • McBean
        4 years ago | pl

        Having a friend-with-benefits could help you to slowly get used to men.

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  • Lummox1523
    4 years ago | pl

    I guess you're bi or struggling with compulsory heterosexuality.

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  • LloydAsher
    4 years ago | pl

    I’m not going into the different romance and sexuality crap. Find yourself a tolerable male (perferably a homosexual one) to hang out with than slowly start to get more male friends then you can branch out and get a boyfriend or something.

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    • Sangwoo
      4 years ago | pl

      I actually like feminine males but they generally turn out to be gay and bc of that i cant date with them. Thanks for your answer anyways :)

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