Is it normal that i like dress

I've been with my boyfriend over 3yrs now since we move in to our new house everything changes .He started calling names for me like bitch,cunt ,whore,slut and etc..he choice friends than me .he put he's friends first then I'm the last ,it hurt my feelings why friends first instead of me,he chatting a lot of he's friends women's and men's ,I was wondering he carries he's phone all the time when he make a phone call he goes out and he s texting ,I don't know whom he texting to but I'm pretty sure he's old friends(women).when we make love was good but afterwards he has this temper can't imagine cursing and calling names ..I don't know if he really loves me .if he did he shouldn't called me names like that and cursing .He called me crazy,dumb no brain and he said go back to school learned more English you embarrassed me infront of my friends .You are a boring person that's why I don't want you to come to the bar because you look so miserable you can't talk. I was crying and hurt me big time .