Is it normal that i like both boys and girls?

70% Normal
13 Comments

Okay, so for a few years now (since I was about 12) I've liked both boys and girls at different times. When I like boys I'm interested in cute-looking ones, and it's always a sexual desire. Like, I would never properly go out with a boy or get married to one, but I would definitely have sex with a boy. In fact, I'm not sexually aroused by girls at all really. If I watch straight porn I don't get turned on by it. Now before you go jumping to conclusions, most of the crushes I have ever had are on girls. I want to get married to a girl and have kids one day, but if I go out with a girl I want it to be romantic and lovely, not a slutty sex-all-the-time only-care-about-sex relationship. Oh, one last thing, I have had oral sex with a boy, and I loved it, but I've never had any real kind of sex with a girl. It feels like my heart has been split in two... the romantic half has been given to girls, the sexual half has been given to boys. I wouldn't consider myself bisexual... I hate labels, but I'd say I'm quite bi-curious. Is this normal? :)

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 13 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago | pl

    Oh boy.... My favorite type of post... The post consisting of sexuality confusion.... Yaaay....

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    3
    3
  • ObsessedWithReedus
    10 years ago | pl

    You said it yourself. You're bi.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    2
    2
  • disthing
    10 years ago | pl

    FAQ you. This is one of the most FAQ. Use the search bar or FAQ off.

    D:

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    Bisexual is the simplest label that fits. It's possible to have a romantic attraction to one gender and a sexual attraction to the other. Normal, but difficult.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • ygrowup
    10 years ago | pl

    There is still time that you might find someone that fills most of your desires and more! Keep seeking, and don't give up easily, good luck with your choices

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • Giorgiox
    10 years ago | pl

    If you <<..had oral sex with a boy, and you loved it, but you never had any real kind of sex with a girl..>>
    ...I don't know.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • StarTeddy
    10 years ago | pl

    I was like that too, except I was sexually attracted to girls and not boys. It evened out with time, I realized that I had never been sexually attracted to a boy because I had never been in a relationship with one. Then I realized that if I was never going to have a relationship with a woman then my sexual feelings were irrelevant. I consider myself straight.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • handsignals
    10 years ago | pl

    Your a Gaymen that is in love with the idea of having a normal family and life.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    -2
    -2
      -
    • GreyWulfen
      10 years ago | pl

      Being Bi is the best life imaginable. xD

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      Report
      0
      0
        -
      • handsignals
        10 years ago | pl

        The OP is not Bi. He say's he's all about the cock that makes him a gaymen. He then say's he is not sexually aroused by girls, he is totally gay.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        Report
        0
        0
          -
        • GreyWulfen
          10 years ago | pl

          It's called heteroromantic, what he is.
          Anyway, "gayman" isn't even an actual word.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          Report
          0
          0
            -
          • handsignals
            10 years ago | pl

            HETROROMANTIC! WARNING: POLITICAL CORRECTNESS GONE MAD!

            The op loves cock, move to LA and make shit loads of money doing gay porn and don't ruin some poor Womans life by pretending your Bi or straight!

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            Report
            -1
            -1
              -
            • GreyWulfen
              10 years ago | pl

              What's with "political correctness", it's just a term to describe exactly this feeling the OP has. If you have a less "political correct" term, just say it.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              Report
              0
              0