Not gonna lie, I used to have a big fetish for married men. I didn't act on it however, but I actually can see why you'd be drawn to them. It was really bad because before I got with my boyfriend, I had this huge thing for this 35 year old married father of two who was so fed up with his wife. I had to severe ties despite not wanting to, but believe me this shit happens.
People can jump on here and attack you, but at least know that I understand. While I may not approve, and others don't, I'd be a major hypocrite if I said I never thought of it or entertained the idea in my head for a while. I honestly think its a normal thing. It's really all in how you react to your urges and whether or not you're comfortable with yourself when you go to sleep at night. If I had an affair with that guy, I wouldn't have been able to look at myself in the mirror. If his wife found out? I knew it would be the end of their marriage, and he had two very pretty daughters who would be without a dad. I don't think I could have lived with myself if I had been the reason for the family falling apart.
Luckily for you though, the boys you're dealing with are just in relationships. Married men are a completely different case.
is it normal that i like being the other one?
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Not gonna lie, I used to have a big fetish for married men. I didn't act on it however, but I actually can see why you'd be drawn to them. It was really bad because before I got with my boyfriend, I had this huge thing for this 35 year old married father of two who was so fed up with his wife. I had to severe ties despite not wanting to, but believe me this shit happens.
People can jump on here and attack you, but at least know that I understand. While I may not approve, and others don't, I'd be a major hypocrite if I said I never thought of it or entertained the idea in my head for a while. I honestly think its a normal thing. It's really all in how you react to your urges and whether or not you're comfortable with yourself when you go to sleep at night. If I had an affair with that guy, I wouldn't have been able to look at myself in the mirror. If his wife found out? I knew it would be the end of their marriage, and he had two very pretty daughters who would be without a dad. I don't think I could have lived with myself if I had been the reason for the family falling apart.
Luckily for you though, the boys you're dealing with are just in relationships. Married men are a completely different case.