so, if i'm sitting in a bar, and you come in, you come up to me, chat with me, buy me a drink, ask me if we should go someplace else, kiss me on the way to another bar, start groping me, tell me about problems with your girlfriend when i ask you about her, all the while having your hands wander, suggest spending the night together and proceeding to having sex with me after i asked about your girlfriend again while you undress me, it is _MY_ fault because i didn't stop you and i'm putting your happyness to risk.
Sorry, i don't get that kind of logic.
I am in a happy and open relationship, but now and then i like a man. Thats all i look for, and all i want. no involvement, no responsibilities, no ties. i tried "no strings attached" sex friends, but that did _NOT_ work out. I prefer to have this on my terms, not as a "call-out" toy. Blame me all you want, but don't act holier-than-thou about those guys that GO all the way.
You know what they would do if all people like me and morphine wouldn't exist? What would happen if NOBODY would have sex with someone because that someone already has a partner? Very simple: They would LIE about being single. If you think they don't have issues and wouldn't cheat, you're giving them too much credit.
If one of the guys had second thoughts or decided to rather go home/send me home, i _NEVER_ pushed him or tried to get him to change his mind, and for that, i am mighty proud, no matter how negatively you judge me.
Some guy buys you a drink or two, (or ten) asks you to go somewhere else for a bit of sex - and you say yes and drop your knickers!!!
FFS why don't you just ask for the cash? I think that is much more honest.
I don't even believe that you enjoy the first time sex with someone new, coz usually it's a bit awkward etc.
Why don't you just tell single guys that you are married? Then you can't give them your number or see them again etc.
It may be ok for you in an open relationship but if you could see the devastation you are causing for a family. I know a few guys who felt so guilty that they told their wives, only to be thrown out. The children lost their dad and they lost the family home too as the ex-wife couldn't keep up payments on her own. I hope some day you see the hurt for one of your family of friends and then you won't be so proud of being a cheap whore.
Most women would tell that cheating pig to fuck off right there and then and maybe threaten to tell their girlfriend, but no - not you. You do it to get your own selfish pleasure.
Yes, i do it for my own selfish pleasure.
The same way i accept people starve in other countries while enjoying the non-fair-trade coffee imported from there.
The same way i accept animals being kept and raised in awful conditions so i can enjoy my cheap meat.
The same way i pass by a homeless person on the street without so much as worrying about wether they have a place to sleep, much less giving them money.
If i stand to gain something from it, why should i start getting an overly "moral" person right there and then and tell a dude that clearly is LOOKING to cheat that he should find another girl.
So, yeah, i don't usually worry much about other people, because most other people don't worry about me, and thats perfectly fine for me. I want neither undue attention nor worrying about others. Why _I_ have a responsibility to STOP the guy, who NOBODY forced to do ANYTHING, still none of the moral busybodies managed to explain.
Not his happiness, her - y'know that other person who still belives they are in a faithful relationship and don't realise your banging their boyfriend. JEEZ I can't belive I just had to explain that Terry.
"sex with me after i asked about your girlfriend again" Oh man look how much you did to be a good person. you asked "again"!
"i _NEVER_ pushed him or tried to get him to change his mind" clearly!
so i'm more responsible for the happyness of some random person i never even saw than the "love of her life"-husband-to-be that will be faithful and raise kids with her.
If anybody, THEY should worry about destroying her happyness, i can't believe you are trying to claim they are "innocent" on basis of me being guilty.
As for asking again, ya, if you happily chat about your girlfriend with me before screwing me, than i don't feel any remorse for the act because obviously, if it was not me, it would be someone else. Thats not the kind of person that gets "tempted" into such a situation and then regrets it. It's a person that's pretty clear on whats happening and ACCEPTS the facts.
And if a BOYFRIEND accepts the fact that he is cheating on his GIRLFRIEND who loves him, then i don't see why i should have a problem accepting the fact that what i am doing MAY hurt a complete stranger i never talked with or saw. If a company boss decides to order office supplies form company A, that may mean company B has to let go 20% of it's employs to avoid bancruptcy, destroying some of their lives in the process. That's capitalism and fine, but if _I_ don't care about people i never had anything to do with, i'm a awful person? Time for a reality check.
As for the last part, while useless since you have made up your mind: Yes, there were guys who had second doubts. And yes, it's not easy. I had guys who got second doubts when we were already naked, my hands on their erection, and me incredibly wet, moments before doing "it". Not trying to "push" them to continue but instead covering up and telling them to go _IS_ not easy. So ya, you can accept that or not. I _KNOW_ i didn't push or try to convince them otherwise.
is it normal that i like being the other one?
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so, if i'm sitting in a bar, and you come in, you come up to me, chat with me, buy me a drink, ask me if we should go someplace else, kiss me on the way to another bar, start groping me, tell me about problems with your girlfriend when i ask you about her, all the while having your hands wander, suggest spending the night together and proceeding to having sex with me after i asked about your girlfriend again while you undress me, it is _MY_ fault because i didn't stop you and i'm putting your happyness to risk.
Sorry, i don't get that kind of logic.
I am in a happy and open relationship, but now and then i like a man. Thats all i look for, and all i want. no involvement, no responsibilities, no ties. i tried "no strings attached" sex friends, but that did _NOT_ work out. I prefer to have this on my terms, not as a "call-out" toy. Blame me all you want, but don't act holier-than-thou about those guys that GO all the way.
You know what they would do if all people like me and morphine wouldn't exist? What would happen if NOBODY would have sex with someone because that someone already has a partner? Very simple: They would LIE about being single. If you think they don't have issues and wouldn't cheat, you're giving them too much credit.
If one of the guys had second thoughts or decided to rather go home/send me home, i _NEVER_ pushed him or tried to get him to change his mind, and for that, i am mighty proud, no matter how negatively you judge me.
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I don't know why you are so cheap!
Some guy buys you a drink or two, (or ten) asks you to go somewhere else for a bit of sex - and you say yes and drop your knickers!!!
FFS why don't you just ask for the cash? I think that is much more honest.
I don't even believe that you enjoy the first time sex with someone new, coz usually it's a bit awkward etc.
Why don't you just tell single guys that you are married? Then you can't give them your number or see them again etc.
It may be ok for you in an open relationship but if you could see the devastation you are causing for a family. I know a few guys who felt so guilty that they told their wives, only to be thrown out. The children lost their dad and they lost the family home too as the ex-wife couldn't keep up payments on her own. I hope some day you see the hurt for one of your family of friends and then you won't be so proud of being a cheap whore.
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It's funny you just assume stuff. I never said I messed with married men, I never even said I'm having sex with them.
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I didn't answer you as the OP, I replied to TerryVie.
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I didn't mean to post that to you..
Most women would tell that cheating pig to fuck off right there and then and maybe threaten to tell their girlfriend, but no - not you. You do it to get your own selfish pleasure.
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Yes, i do it for my own selfish pleasure.
The same way i accept people starve in other countries while enjoying the non-fair-trade coffee imported from there.
The same way i accept animals being kept and raised in awful conditions so i can enjoy my cheap meat.
The same way i pass by a homeless person on the street without so much as worrying about wether they have a place to sleep, much less giving them money.
If i stand to gain something from it, why should i start getting an overly "moral" person right there and then and tell a dude that clearly is LOOKING to cheat that he should find another girl.
So, yeah, i don't usually worry much about other people, because most other people don't worry about me, and thats perfectly fine for me. I want neither undue attention nor worrying about others. Why _I_ have a responsibility to STOP the guy, who NOBODY forced to do ANYTHING, still none of the moral busybodies managed to explain.
Not his happiness, her - y'know that other person who still belives they are in a faithful relationship and don't realise your banging their boyfriend. JEEZ I can't belive I just had to explain that Terry.
"sex with me after i asked about your girlfriend again" Oh man look how much you did to be a good person. you asked "again"!
"i _NEVER_ pushed him or tried to get him to change his mind" clearly!
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so i'm more responsible for the happyness of some random person i never even saw than the "love of her life"-husband-to-be that will be faithful and raise kids with her.
If anybody, THEY should worry about destroying her happyness, i can't believe you are trying to claim they are "innocent" on basis of me being guilty.
As for asking again, ya, if you happily chat about your girlfriend with me before screwing me, than i don't feel any remorse for the act because obviously, if it was not me, it would be someone else. Thats not the kind of person that gets "tempted" into such a situation and then regrets it. It's a person that's pretty clear on whats happening and ACCEPTS the facts.
And if a BOYFRIEND accepts the fact that he is cheating on his GIRLFRIEND who loves him, then i don't see why i should have a problem accepting the fact that what i am doing MAY hurt a complete stranger i never talked with or saw. If a company boss decides to order office supplies form company A, that may mean company B has to let go 20% of it's employs to avoid bancruptcy, destroying some of their lives in the process. That's capitalism and fine, but if _I_ don't care about people i never had anything to do with, i'm a awful person? Time for a reality check.
As for the last part, while useless since you have made up your mind: Yes, there were guys who had second doubts. And yes, it's not easy. I had guys who got second doubts when we were already naked, my hands on their erection, and me incredibly wet, moments before doing "it". Not trying to "push" them to continue but instead covering up and telling them to go _IS_ not easy. So ya, you can accept that or not. I _KNOW_ i didn't push or try to convince them otherwise.
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^ This.
you're doing it wrong!
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troll much?
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"my hands on their erection, and me incredibly w"
I caught you trolling. just admit it, and you thought you had me XD
and oh yeah...
...you're doing it wrong! BAZINGA!