ah, let me assure you that i don't approach them, and _I_ don't come on to them. I just "move on" if the guy is single, but stay to chat when he's not.
I know that does not exempt me from whats going on, there's always 2 people involved, but with guys that actively try to find someone to cheat with, and i'm just not resisting that, i don't really feel guilty.
So, yeah, in my eyes, i put the majority of blame on them, as THEY have to flirt with me, THEY have to suggest it, and THEY have to make the first move. I am a willing accomplice but tend to believe that i can't destroy something already broken. If the guy _IS_ cheating, he _IS_ cheating. As (not really) mentioned above, i even ASK them about their girls before we do "it"...hence one guys response of showing me pics of her...
Yes! A million times, yes. that's exactly how I feel. It's not like I come on to anyone when I find out they're in a relationship, but if they are, and they're coming on to me, I don't mind. It's just whatever now. I've been hurt too much to give a damn.
well, seems theres a lot of hatred coming our way.
funny, considering the average guy in a bar is not so "reluctant".
it's relatively anonymous here and people still get all elitist about it being wrong, but truth just looks different. My honest comments are obviously "Inappropiate, mean, or in poor taste" but "stupid cunt" is "helpful, interesting, kind or funny".
I think it's really funny(in a bad way) that people here openly discuss stuff like incest, necrophilia or bestiality in a friendly manner, but if you openly admit that you like being "the other women" then you are voted down and hated. yay internet.
i understand you, morphine, decide for yourself if those haters are worth listening to.
is it normal that i like being the other one?
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ah, let me assure you that i don't approach them, and _I_ don't come on to them. I just "move on" if the guy is single, but stay to chat when he's not.
I know that does not exempt me from whats going on, there's always 2 people involved, but with guys that actively try to find someone to cheat with, and i'm just not resisting that, i don't really feel guilty.
So, yeah, in my eyes, i put the majority of blame on them, as THEY have to flirt with me, THEY have to suggest it, and THEY have to make the first move. I am a willing accomplice but tend to believe that i can't destroy something already broken. If the guy _IS_ cheating, he _IS_ cheating. As (not really) mentioned above, i even ASK them about their girls before we do "it"...hence one guys response of showing me pics of her...
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Yes! A million times, yes. that's exactly how I feel. It's not like I come on to anyone when I find out they're in a relationship, but if they are, and they're coming on to me, I don't mind. It's just whatever now. I've been hurt too much to give a damn.
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well, seems theres a lot of hatred coming our way.
funny, considering the average guy in a bar is not so "reluctant".
it's relatively anonymous here and people still get all elitist about it being wrong, but truth just looks different. My honest comments are obviously "Inappropiate, mean, or in poor taste" but "stupid cunt" is "helpful, interesting, kind or funny".
I think it's really funny(in a bad way) that people here openly discuss stuff like incest, necrophilia or bestiality in a friendly manner, but if you openly admit that you like being "the other women" then you are voted down and hated. yay internet.
i understand you, morphine, decide for yourself if those haters are worth listening to.
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You can tell who's been cheated on when you read these threads - they get sooo outta control....