Is it normal that i let someone eat me out but not hit

you bitch

I don't think I'd want someone to hit me. Getting oral sounds more pleasurable.

Not reciprocating just makes you an asshole, but that's *ONLY* if he had no desire for reciprocation. (or it's a kink or whatever)

Just stick to oral more fun less awkward and no premature ejaculation

Back when I liked men, my ex ate me out all the time without sex. It's normal.

Normal, sex is more than oral, hence the "3rd/ 4th" base metaphor, and you are never obligated to do anything that doesn't feel right, regardless of what you've already done with them. There is no need to feel bad, you made the right decision.

I think it's normal, you're just confused. You just need to relax and think about what you are doing.