Is it normal that i let my fiance act out one of his fantasies?

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Recently me and my fiance were talking about some of our fantasies and he told me that one of his would be sleeping with my sister, but preferably with me and her at the same time. I told him no, I really don't want to sleep with my sister, but if you really want to sleep with her then go ahead. (I had explained it to her, that I trusted them both and I'm fine with it, and she did it.) *jsyk I'm a girl*

So what I'm asking is, is it normal that I let my fiance sleep with my sister just because it was one of his fantasies?

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Based on 26 votes (7 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If everybody is cool with it no problem

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    If everybody is fine with it, thats cool for you.

    It's definitely not normal, though. Having your husband-to-be have sex with your sister?

    So up next, he wants your best friend. Oh well, he already had your sister. Oh, and the neighbours daugther is pretty hot, too. Oh, and your own daughter, looks like a younger you.
    I mean, where do you draw the line?
    Being sexually independent and having a "open" kind of relationship where you both can have sex with others is ONE thing, but including people close to you, or even family, thats definitely not normal.

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  • Legion
    12 years ago

    If you truly are okay with it, than that's fine. but you don't seem okay with it cause you didn't like the idea at first. Don't let him do something you don't like just to make him happy. A relationship is about mutual respect, and that first no should have ended the issue.

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  • SMILEifyourstupid
    13 years ago

    Ummm...NO!!

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  • justsomgirl
    13 years ago

    So what happens when his next fantasy is to sleep with your best friend? And then right after that with some other girl?

    Those aren't fantasies....it's just wanting to cheat. And you gave him permission.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Cheating is when you do something without permission and without your significant other's knowledge. When everyone knows and acquiesces it's just a really good time.

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  • darnitjoan
    13 years ago

    no offense but you're a dummy, your boyfriend is a douche and your sister is probably the worst sister in the world!

    Ditch them both and good riddance.

    When you're in a relationship you don't sleep with other people!

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