Is it normal that i lead guys on

I have a boyfriend, but I really like it when other people want me, or crush on me. I lead guys on very often, most of the time without even thinking about it. I do this with girls as well. I feel really guilty about this, especially because often times the person I do it to is a good friend of mine. I'm pretty sure that my boyfriend doesn't like it. I hate being manipulative like this, but it's hard to change you know? Is this normal, or does anyone else have a similar experience?

Is It Normal?
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  • People who do this are generally insecure and needy. They have a low opinion of themselves, so they continually seek validation by others.

    People who truly like themselves and are secure about their value don't feel a constant need for strokes.

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  • I am 65 year old guy. Wishing you or someone like you would make a move on me. Damn, I have that fantasy every day.

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  • It's cruel and won't fix your own problems. If you want to change, you really need to want it.

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  • No, I don't know.

    If you don't like it change it. Stop making others make you feel valued. You're only worth what YOU think you are worth.

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  • Absolutely nothing wrong with it - everyone wants to feel attractive and wanted!

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  • You should not feel bad about it!! You are a superior dominant woman and you should always be on top!!! Even if under your high heels are someone's balls and you standing on them full weight!!!

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