IIN that I kind of stalked this dude at university?

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  • Yeah, that's pretty stalkerish. Simon LeBon had both ears pierced back in the early 80s, and he's never been gay. It's not really any of your business if this guy is gay or staight, besides he could be queer as a three dollar bill and still have no interest in you. I don't care if you male or female, gay or straight or trans or whatever, because it's unhealthy for you to stalk another person, and nobody's obligated to return your interest. Don't waste your time obsessing about this person or anyone else, because it's just a waste of time that you could be studying.

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    • True it is a waste of time. Still technically stalking him would be actually following him around and keeping tabs on him which i have no intention of doing.

      I do think your thinking about just not wasting my time is a little flawed. He's not obligated to like me, no shit, but does that mean i shouldn't even try?

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      • If you want to try strike up a conversation with him next time you see him.

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        • Honestly, I don't think she is to the stalker point yet. She is respecting his privacy, and not really obsessing about him. If his left ear is unpierced, she is going to leave him alone.

          If she starts a conversation and he brushes her off, then anything after that point is stalking.

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          • She? Is it weird that I thought she was a he? I feel like OP is a gay guy, but I dunno.

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