Is it normal that i kind of hate sex?

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Hi people, I feel I am sort of strange, I'm a 27 year old male and never had sex, I feel urges towards it but haven't really done or do anything about it, I hate societies obsession with this topic and the expectation how everyone must put this as a top
Priority, ppl who just wanna get constantly laid and think it's everything make me sick and really angry, I'm also curious to have sex and want to try it, what's wrong with me? Am I normal? I barely go
Out and try to "pick up" but I feel I am a fairly normal dude and like a drink a laugh and sport etc.... I am thinking to go and pay for it as I feel emotionally out of place in society and feel i want to have sex for a few reasons, to know what it's like and to just say I have done it and to not feel so weird, unusual or out of place, I enjoy watching pornographic movies but yeah I just not entirely sure what's wrong with me... I feel there are
Much more important things in life, plz reply guys :-) im also super shy and respect women, I don't wanna force a woman to do something she doesn't wanna even if I'm paying.... I have trouble talking to women in a dating or sexual sense I think, I get anxious about sex and yeah, plz reply guys, feels good to get all this out there and off my
Chest, I have been reading heaps of these type of
Stories on here and it feels good to know im not alone :-)

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    I reckon it'd be more accurate for you to say you're scared of sex or at the very least apprehensive and nervous about it.

    You're normal to not go along with society's obsession with the topic, which is mainly created and certainly fed by people making money out of it.

    There's no reason why you can't pay for sex the first time: at least then you'll have some idea of whether or not you really like it (bet you do!) BUT be careful who you choose. I would recommend a clean brothel and USE A CONDOM.

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    • Carlton03
      7 years ago

      Thanks for your reply and if did it would definetely be clean and yes of course protection is mandatory in those places :-)... And yes I am nervous, you are right :-( which is also a worry cause I may not be able to get myself working for the situation if ppl know what I mean.

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        Hey, any good sex worker will be able to help you through that! Especially if you explain your situation at the start.

        You worry too much!

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        • Carlton03
          7 years ago

          Awwwwwwwwww thanks, your cool and nice :-)

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          • Ellenna
            7 years ago

            You're welcome - have fun!

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      • Carlton03
        7 years ago

        Hope I get more ppl weighing in, I'm sure I will, i feel it's also hard to have friends when I am not quite normal :-( I don't really have any

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  • Gspyder
    7 years ago

    I wouldn't write it off altogether, it sounds like you just don't want to have meaningless sex like you see others doing. It's fine to have that outlook too. You don't need to feel pressured to run out and find/pay for it to feel normal. Wait till you find someone you want to share it with.

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  • Squidward
    1 year ago

    What you're feeling is perfectly normal. Whether you realize it or not, you understand female nature. You know instinctively that women use sex to control men, and it rightfully makes you angry. You've seen the lengths people will go to for sex, and the reprehensible things they do for it.
    You can either love women or understand them, but not both. You understand them, and you find their behavior despicable. Trust me, I've been married and divorced twice, and have had enough LTRs to see patterns.
    Using sex and playing with our emotions is how women exert control over us. You're doing the right thing by not allowing them to control you.

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Hmmmmmm, okay

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Awwww thanks, you are cool, where you from may I ask?

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
      7 years ago

      Not Collingwood lol :)

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      • Carlton03
        7 years ago

        Hahahahaha, so Australia?

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        • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
          7 years ago

          'Ken oath! :)

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          • Carlton03
            7 years ago

            What state, may I ask?!

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            • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
              7 years ago

              Oh you can ask all you like :) It doesn't mean I'll be telling now does it? Lol

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          • Carlton03
            7 years ago

            Haha

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Awww thanks, I put pressure on myself though... In other areas hehe work income etc but am
    Happy
    Like that :-)

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    • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
      7 years ago

      Just keep being you then all sounds perfectly normal :) x

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    You're totally normal. Forget the pressure live life, have fun, sex will find you soon enough and it will be special :)

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT/REPLIES ALL :-)

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  • janicefromaccounting
    7 years ago

    asexual?

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    • Carlton03
      7 years ago

      I could be who knows? But wouldn't that mean I have no urges at all?

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      • janicefromaccounting
        7 years ago

        i dont really know mayb demi romantic or something? idk i think its okay dude. u do u im rooting for u. u dont need sex when u have cat memes

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        • Carlton03
          7 years ago

          Hehehe okay and thanks, and can you help me with my tax soon???? Hehehehhe joke :-)

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  • Holzman_67
    7 years ago

    I think if anyone is deprived of anything for too long they grow to resent the very nature of it

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  • Ass_gas
    7 years ago

    You are in an enviable position actually. Just limit yourself to masturbation and you won't have the heavy burden of relationship baggage. Lube up your hand with Astroglide, and stroke away with porn of girls that look like they would be good friends. Simple, effective, and pleasurable.

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    • Carlton03
      7 years ago

      That's true ass gas and I do love doing that but don't use lube and don't think I need just for that, I do wanna have sex though, I must try this :-) sorry if I sound like a dog but I am human after all

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      • Ass_gas
        7 years ago

        Hey man. Dogs, cats, rabbits, fish, humans, and other animals all want sex. If they don't, their genes are eliminated from the population.

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  • flwrswhisperingnthenight
    7 years ago

    i undestand bruh, im 17 and still a virgin. we are like totally the same people. u should message me

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    • Carlton03
      7 years ago

      Okay cool, nice to know there's heaps out there like me, perhaps I'm just a "nerd" where are you from flwrs?

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      • flwrswhisperingnthenight
        7 years ago

        Michigan.

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        • Carlton03
          7 years ago

          Okay, I'm In Australia

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          • flwrswhisperingnthenight
            7 years ago

            ive always wanted to go there! my brother lives there so im totally jealous.

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            • Carlton03
              6 years ago

              Do you have instagram?

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  • Carlton03
    7 years ago

    Don't talk to me like that and no I'm not small

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