A lot of people refer to that as burning out, or death in the passion of a relationship. It's perfectly normal and, in fact, many marriages and good relationships end when this passion burns out and suddenly one or both members lose interest in eachother.
The trick to getting around this is to find someone that is interesting enough to keep you interested in them. Someone who has fun hobbies, intellectual interests or just has an interesting personality in general to keep the relationship from being stale. Some people need excitement in their love lives and you are probably one of those people.
My advice to you is to keep looking for someone that can keep you interested. The guy that you shut down may be perfect for some other girl, but not for you and that's ok.
Is it normal that I keep getting emotionally numb?
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That makes sense.
A lot of people refer to that as burning out, or death in the passion of a relationship. It's perfectly normal and, in fact, many marriages and good relationships end when this passion burns out and suddenly one or both members lose interest in eachother.
The trick to getting around this is to find someone that is interesting enough to keep you interested in them. Someone who has fun hobbies, intellectual interests or just has an interesting personality in general to keep the relationship from being stale. Some people need excitement in their love lives and you are probably one of those people.
My advice to you is to keep looking for someone that can keep you interested. The guy that you shut down may be perfect for some other girl, but not for you and that's ok.