It is very comforting to see that the responses to my problem are so in-line with each other. It is nice to know that at least you do not think I amn acting like a complete ego-maniac or misplaced playboy.
This evening me and my girlfriend even had an honest talk about it, which was (on my part) largely fueled by the fact that none of you seemed particularly shocked by my feelings.
My girl mentioned that she noticed that I have been putting an unusual amount of attention and effort into my relationship with the other girl. After some hesitation I explained wat has been happening and to my surprise she was also quite understanding. She was not angry, although she did feel threatened and ofcourse asked a lot of questions about how I feel and how to deal with this. She said she would never forbid me to be around whoever made me feel happy, but made (quite intensely) clear that if I continue on this road and fuck up she would not accept it.
I think this gives me yet another incentive to seek some distance and making my relationship with the woman more platonic. Knowing that it is hurting my gf and she is willing to vent this, but also that she does want to be understanding means a lot I guess.
Is it normal that I keep craving attention from this girl?
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It is very comforting to see that the responses to my problem are so in-line with each other. It is nice to know that at least you do not think I amn acting like a complete ego-maniac or misplaced playboy.
This evening me and my girlfriend even had an honest talk about it, which was (on my part) largely fueled by the fact that none of you seemed particularly shocked by my feelings.
My girl mentioned that she noticed that I have been putting an unusual amount of attention and effort into my relationship with the other girl. After some hesitation I explained wat has been happening and to my surprise she was also quite understanding. She was not angry, although she did feel threatened and ofcourse asked a lot of questions about how I feel and how to deal with this. She said she would never forbid me to be around whoever made me feel happy, but made (quite intensely) clear that if I continue on this road and fuck up she would not accept it.
I think this gives me yet another incentive to seek some distance and making my relationship with the woman more platonic. Knowing that it is hurting my gf and she is willing to vent this, but also that she does want to be understanding means a lot I guess.
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She definitely sounds like a keeper! It's great you can talk about things like that.