You like the attention. I was the "other" girl in a very similar situation, and I backed off just because he made it clear that he likes my [5 hour phone calls, late night Skype sessions, "send me pictures", "you owe me a massage"] attention, but loves his girlfriend.
Don't give this girl too much, she might turn around and fuck shit up for you when she realizes you might not want to take it 'there'. People do mean things when their feelings get hurt. Meh, all relationships level out eventually. She's new and exciting, I get it.
Thank you very much for your female view on this. I am even already recognizing some signs from your last paragraph. My gf knows I spend a lot of time with this other woman and has simply told me that she would never keep me from being around whoever I feel like, but that she has already noticed that this is different compared to my 'normal' friends. She was cool about it and just told me not to fuck it up because naturally she would not tolerate this.
However, after blowing off the other woman a few times she was the one getting quite possessive and jealous. This scared me quite a bit because it seemed so inappropriate seeing that she knows the whole situation.
Yeah. That doesn't sound good. I would be wary about her becoming sensitive, man. You don't want her getting all butt-hurt and, for example, fb messaging your girlfriend lies about how you two hooked up. She can manipulate your girlfriend into distrusting you, which is not something you want. be wary lol. good luck.
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You like the attention. I was the "other" girl in a very similar situation, and I backed off just because he made it clear that he likes my [5 hour phone calls, late night Skype sessions, "send me pictures", "you owe me a massage"] attention, but loves his girlfriend.
Don't give this girl too much, she might turn around and fuck shit up for you when she realizes you might not want to take it 'there'. People do mean things when their feelings get hurt. Meh, all relationships level out eventually. She's new and exciting, I get it.
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Thank you very much for your female view on this. I am even already recognizing some signs from your last paragraph. My gf knows I spend a lot of time with this other woman and has simply told me that she would never keep me from being around whoever I feel like, but that she has already noticed that this is different compared to my 'normal' friends. She was cool about it and just told me not to fuck it up because naturally she would not tolerate this.
However, after blowing off the other woman a few times she was the one getting quite possessive and jealous. This scared me quite a bit because it seemed so inappropriate seeing that she knows the whole situation.
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Yeah. That doesn't sound good. I would be wary about her becoming sensitive, man. You don't want her getting all butt-hurt and, for example, fb messaging your girlfriend lies about how you two hooked up. She can manipulate your girlfriend into distrusting you, which is not something you want. be wary lol. good luck.