hmmm..okay, don't act on impulse because you might lose both of them..
You already have a girlfriend who loves you and from what you said, you seem to be very compatible..
Now, your choice of words is quite telling..you know you're on the wrong track "it feeds my ego", "addicted to ATTENTION" she gives you..do you feel the same about your girlfriend, are you with her only because you enjoy the attention she gives you? I don't think so..
You need to be sure of what you really want..cause if you decided to be with the new girl, you might lose your girlfriend for good..and perhaps once the glamour is gone, the fascination or addiction to the new girl wouldn't last either..You'll end up unhappy, not to mention that you will hurt both of them too.. NOTE: If you're unsure about the new girl, you need to STOP giving her false hope too..it will break her heart..it's not fair
This is a really rational explanation and in the back of my mind I agree and would probably advise a third person something similar. The thing that still bothers me is that I usually do not get so much attention and love from other attractive women. So all of a sudden I have the option of radically changing what I thought was a perfect scenario. I am very happy with my relationship now but what if I am missing out on something even better that I otherwise would never even know existed?
Is it normal that I keep craving attention from this girl?
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hmmm..okay, don't act on impulse because you might lose both of them..
You already have a girlfriend who loves you and from what you said, you seem to be very compatible..
Now, your choice of words is quite telling..you know you're on the wrong track "it feeds my ego", "addicted to ATTENTION" she gives you..do you feel the same about your girlfriend, are you with her only because you enjoy the attention she gives you? I don't think so..
You need to be sure of what you really want..cause if you decided to be with the new girl, you might lose your girlfriend for good..and perhaps once the glamour is gone, the fascination or addiction to the new girl wouldn't last either..You'll end up unhappy, not to mention that you will hurt both of them too.. NOTE: If you're unsure about the new girl, you need to STOP giving her false hope too..it will break her heart..it's not fair
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This is a really rational explanation and in the back of my mind I agree and would probably advise a third person something similar. The thing that still bothers me is that I usually do not get so much attention and love from other attractive women. So all of a sudden I have the option of radically changing what I thought was a perfect scenario. I am very happy with my relationship now but what if I am missing out on something even better that I otherwise would never even know existed?