Is it normal that i just want casual sex and i've never had a bf?

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I've never been into getting a boyfriend and the only reason that I would like one is so that I can have sex. I'm a 22 year old girl and it feels like I'm a boy going through puberty because I constantly think about sex to the extent that it makes me cranky not to get it. I am a virgin and I've never had a boyfriend. Should I just make a move on a guy? What do you guys prefer when a girl makes a move? I don't want to look desperate and I also don't want them to know I'm a virgin if it's casual.
I live in a place where the guys never make a move. I've heard my girl friends tell me that guys find me attractive but then I never get asked out. Maybe I'm making myself look unapproachable.

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Based on 149 votes (120 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    More Cleavage?

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    A young, cute virgin who only wants casual sex?

    Dude, you shouldn't have any issue with finding someone for casual fun! As a girl it's almost too easy to get a guy to come over for sex.

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  • CozmoWank
    10 years ago

    You get cranky if you don't get sex but you're a virgin. Maybe you're just cranky with or without sex?

    Imagine if some casual lay gets you pregnant. You'll be extra cranky when the baby keeps you up all night crying and you have to go to work in the morning.

    Buy a vibrator.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      So you're saying that every single person who has sex gets pregnant. I'm saying that I'm horny and I didn't have this problem before.

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      • CozmoWank
        10 years ago

        "IF" my dear, if you get pregnant. It's been known to happen.

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  • OtherSide
    9 years ago

    Did you know that you can sell your virginity online for upwards of $10 000?
    If you're looking to lose the v-card to a casual lay, you might as well make a few bucks.

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  • eu1979
    10 years ago

    It's normal.
    You're young. You have plenty of time to date...

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  • Hannible
    10 years ago

    You need to buy a big Dildo, or contact me I will pop over and give you a good rogering!

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    You don't really have to tell your first that he is your first. Just tell him that you are tender down there and that you would appreciate if he would take it easy. Yes, and if you want to have sex with a single guy, make him your friend and complement him on his good figure, his slim thighs, if he takes off his pants, the size of his dick, etc. Enjoy....

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  • LC50
    10 years ago

    sweetheart it's not wrong to feel as you do when I was your age thats all i could think about, what would be wrong is you not telling the guy you are going to be with that your a virgin, I dont know what you have been told about first time sex but let me tell you that the first time a girl has sex it uselly hurt, the boy you pick needs to know that its your first so he can be easey on you. ether way i hope you find what your looking for.

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  • Lonely2
    10 years ago

    You definitely dont fit any mold...in fact You got me stumped....your a female virgin at 22 and yet horny all the time and want sex......then why are you still a virgin??? and at 22....and if you are a female virgin and have made it to 22 without sex why is that a big deal now....it seems you have been dealing with this already for years...and if you do want sex what the problem...I can see short term issues like lack of a partner but its been going on for years already, right?

    I am a guy so if the problem is your horny and want to get laid and you say you are attractive, etc...then all I can think of is you are not giving any vibes out to any guys showing them you are interested...it doesnt have to be big...just hi and smile , being nice etc....amd try to get around alcohol....

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    Try being the one who makes the first move as oppose to being the one who waits for it to happen.

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