Did you read the link I provided.
it's different because cost of living is higher.
And frankly if you're telling him "get off his lazy ass" to go provide you a life... I say you might find that's not the best way to motivate him to want to work for you.
I know plenty of men who would look at a statement like that and say "time to eject from this relationship"
Is it normal that I just refuse to work?
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"so why should it be any different now? "
Did you read the link I provided.
it's different because cost of living is higher.
And frankly if you're telling him "get off his lazy ass" to go provide you a life... I say you might find that's not the best way to motivate him to want to work for you.
I know plenty of men who would look at a statement like that and say "time to eject from this relationship"
so be careful what you ask for.