Is it normal that i just feel attracted for type of boys?

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Hi! I'm new here, so this is my first story.
My friends and family say that I'm crazy and sometimes ridiculous,but this is an important thing to me. I'm a black girl who likes both black and white boys. I have no preference.I know that this may sound stupid, but it's always the hair color that makes me feel attracted to a boy. I like boys with black, dark brown or light brown hair. I don't like blond guys. I clearly assume that I don't like them. Not to be discriminating against them but as a matter of attraction. My friends and family say that I'm racist,but I'm not.I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST INTERRACIAL COUPLES,I APPROVE THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIPS.But I just can imagine a blond boy having a relationship with a black girl. It's so strange to me. I've never seen a couple like this. I think that is not possible or normal. It's not commom. I have a friend that says that one day I will marry to a blond man and I will have children with him. And I just can't stand this idea!!!!!! It's impossible!!!! I REAPEAT THAT I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS AND I AM NOT RACIST! But I think that this is not normal! Do you guys think that I'm racist too? Do I have a problem? Or I'm just insecure or afraid?

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  • LunaLaFortuna
    12 years ago

    well, I can understand you and normally I would agree, but... I like dark boys with buff bods, hairless preferably apart from on the head (chest hair - horrible!) and I don't like them too short or too tall, just right, a dancer type of body and a bit of a bad boy.

    Who do I fall, madly deeply in love with? A tall nerdy white guy (with a tan though) with lots of chest hair and a weird accent, nowhere near a dancer by any stretch of imagination (he actually walks like a tree trunk) and I won't give him up for anything. He is the best thing that's happened to me, ever. He's so smart and witty and makes me laugh and he loves me.

    Love is truly blind, you just don't know what's gonna happen. So never say never cause life can surprise you.

    gud luck!

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  • tommyterror123
    14 years ago

    im medium brown haired and wish i was darker haired even
    hair colour doesnt matter to me but i do prefer the dark haired lady's ;)

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  • insognity
    14 years ago

    I am attracted to certain types of people too, I would never go out with someone with curly hair, whether they're white black asian latino I don't care but curly hair just pisses me off for some reason ... I don't think this is being racist but some people have preferences I guess ... I think this is normal as long as you don't let it get in the way of you getting to know / befriend curly haired or blonde boys, I have nothing against curly haired people just that curly haired boys look so g@y to me, but whatever that's just my opinion

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    Sooo very normal.

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  • lemonmelon
    14 years ago

    You're not being racist, it's simply a preference. I don't think I could imagine being with a white guy with blonde hair either, and I'm a white girl with (dirty) blonde hair. I prefer guys with brown or black hair. My friend prefers blondes, another, brunettes. You can't do anything about what you prefer, and your family shouldn't be picking on you for it. I'm not racist but I prefer Asians. There isn't anything I can do about that, and I wouldn't change it if I could.

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  • mochny
    14 years ago

    It's not racist, it's you're opinion. I'm white and I'm not attracted to blond guys either. If you're not attracted to blonds, you probably won't marry one and have kids with him. Your friend is just messing with you.

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  • coloredpencils
    14 years ago

    You're normal to have preferences yes, but know that it happens. I am mixed and I've dated a blond hair blue eyed boy. It goes with who click with not skin or hair color. :)

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  • Anywho
    14 years ago

    I have a blond cousin married to a black woman. I have dated both black and white men. I also like the dark hair ;D You go girlfriend.

    I did try to date a few blonds in the past... never works out... there's big problems in relationships where you're trying to make it work SOLELY on personality. You really do need both. You can't be with someone just cause they're nice, and you can't be with someone just cause they're cute... you know what I mean.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It's only a matter of your opinion.
    As for me, I don't care about the hair color but for me it matters personality-wise.

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