Is it normal that i just can't love him?

I've been dating this guy for a few months who's great on paper. I mean we're both college students, he's smart, handsome, charming, caring, funny, wealthy....but I cannot seem to fall for him! He's already told me he loved me and I just could not say it back because I don't feel the same way. He's the type of guy women fawn over, but to me, there is no spark. I like him, I like spending time with him, and I know he's the one I should be with, but if he ended our relationship, I would be perfectly fine. And I think he notices that he likes me more than I like him, but for some reason, he doesn't want to break up. I've been thinking about breaking it off with him, but I really don't want to hurt him. Another reason I stick around is because before him, I went through a horrible breakup that made me bitter so I think that I shouldn't let my bitterness pass up a great guy. What should I do?

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Comments ( 9 )
  • Qwertyzxc

    Not everyone falls in love instantly....

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  • sadpants

    ask yer self if youu lovehim n make a list of things tat u love bou him n think if u break up ter all gone if u dont wont to loos him ten stay n u love him

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    • CreamPuffs

      English please.

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  • TB1920

    The more you stay with this dude the more your going to hurt him cause you dont love him. Theres nothing you can do it's better to let him go so he can recover and find someone that would love him back and so that you can do the same. It may same hard now but it would be harder staying with him as he tries desperately to try to make you love him. hopes this helps but if it doesnt
    shit happens

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  • LiamHale

    Selfish. Continuing in the relationship is only beneficial to you because you've got fears of having a bad breakup again. Have a heart and break it off so he can move on.

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  • crazykittens

    Don't stay with him.

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  • soccer2

    I agree with the above
    U can't make urself love someone
    And it's not fair to stay with someone when he loves u

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  • junkie1234

    You are wasting his time, let him go so he can find someone who wants him

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  • lol_bamf

    Don't stay with him if you don't love him. You need to find a way to tell him.

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