it is absolutely a possibility to intimidate a man. Men naturally seek a strong woman who can handle herself, however, we want to be the alpha, provider, your brick wall to stand against. If all you ever show is the "I don't need you" attitude, even if you're not intimidating them you're probably running them off. I'm not saying go all out and show weaknesses blah blah blah. I'm saying , we men KNOW women are equals, so that whole "I am woman, hear me roar" attitude can just be turned down a bit.
Maybe you are showing them the urge of a long term relationship. Men aren't that afraid of relationships. We just need women to not try to mold us. Maybe you pick the guys that look well but don't fit your description. He sees your dissatisfaction and just doesn't try. Maybe he's just not asking in the same way you envision it. We aren't mind readers, daddy taught you a great way in his time, but you'd be hard pressed to find that exact scenario in this age. Mom probably gave you a list of things to look for that makes you decide whether you continue the conversation or kill it yourself. Not giving that guy who would ask you out, a chance.
Basically, try to blend superwoman, damsel in distress, sophisticated, freak.
Are your conversations ALWAYS about what you're looking for or your job, or future plans Nice to establish, but enjoy the moment and just talk about fun stuff. Have you ever went on a great vacation? Where else will you visit? Would you do outside activities. If you can laugh at anything even his push for sex, that most of us do, then you have a chance for a date. We'll want time around you more. Please remember, just because we hint towards sex doesn't make us a pig.I'm the most loyal man I know, but if you're attractive then you'll know from me. not my fault every other guy did so and you're tired of it. Pass me and you missed out, trust me.
Point: think about what's being said and keep the first conversation light. Let him know through your womanly ways it's ok to ask you out. Stay off your damn phone in public. We think you could be contacting the man everyone can't believe you don't have. Try to NOT be so serious in your first conversation Don't allow him to be either. That's actually a tip I give men.
You'll be ok it just takes time. PLUS early 20s is a great time to search, but you still have life to live.
Is it normal that i intimidate guys ?
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it is absolutely a possibility to intimidate a man. Men naturally seek a strong woman who can handle herself, however, we want to be the alpha, provider, your brick wall to stand against. If all you ever show is the "I don't need you" attitude, even if you're not intimidating them you're probably running them off. I'm not saying go all out and show weaknesses blah blah blah. I'm saying , we men KNOW women are equals, so that whole "I am woman, hear me roar" attitude can just be turned down a bit.
Maybe you are showing them the urge of a long term relationship. Men aren't that afraid of relationships. We just need women to not try to mold us. Maybe you pick the guys that look well but don't fit your description. He sees your dissatisfaction and just doesn't try. Maybe he's just not asking in the same way you envision it. We aren't mind readers, daddy taught you a great way in his time, but you'd be hard pressed to find that exact scenario in this age. Mom probably gave you a list of things to look for that makes you decide whether you continue the conversation or kill it yourself. Not giving that guy who would ask you out, a chance.
Basically, try to blend superwoman, damsel in distress, sophisticated, freak.
Are your conversations ALWAYS about what you're looking for or your job, or future plans Nice to establish, but enjoy the moment and just talk about fun stuff. Have you ever went on a great vacation? Where else will you visit? Would you do outside activities. If you can laugh at anything even his push for sex, that most of us do, then you have a chance for a date. We'll want time around you more. Please remember, just because we hint towards sex doesn't make us a pig.I'm the most loyal man I know, but if you're attractive then you'll know from me. not my fault every other guy did so and you're tired of it. Pass me and you missed out, trust me.
Point: think about what's being said and keep the first conversation light. Let him know through your womanly ways it's ok to ask you out. Stay off your damn phone in public. We think you could be contacting the man everyone can't believe you don't have. Try to NOT be so serious in your first conversation Don't allow him to be either. That's actually a tip I give men.
You'll be ok it just takes time. PLUS early 20s is a great time to search, but you still have life to live.