You've become hard, proud, independent; you may think you don't deserve help or kindness, you think whoever being nice to you or trying to help you has some hidden agenda or lacks sincerity; somebody hurt you bigtime before.....in any case, as long as you are not currently being hurt by it, learn to let down your guard a little and accept kindness and help because we all deserve a little bit of both every now and then....I'm not saying trust everybody....I'm saying let down your guard a little, and if they prove themselves sincere and true, then yes accept help and kindness because you deserve it....
Is it normal that I insult people who try to help me?
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You've become hard, proud, independent; you may think you don't deserve help or kindness, you think whoever being nice to you or trying to help you has some hidden agenda or lacks sincerity; somebody hurt you bigtime before.....in any case, as long as you are not currently being hurt by it, learn to let down your guard a little and accept kindness and help because we all deserve a little bit of both every now and then....I'm not saying trust everybody....I'm saying let down your guard a little, and if they prove themselves sincere and true, then yes accept help and kindness because you deserve it....