Is it normal that i idolise my best friend?

I love my best mate, he is basically the best human being I can think of. I've known him since I can remember. When I hear love songs I think of him. I have no attraction towards him or any guy, I just love him, he is attracted to girls but we see each other as siblings. Is it weird I see him as the best person ever?

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  • WewLaddie

    It's good you're in such a close friendship, but be careful not to have so much of your personality lean on a single person; even if it's a friendship, codependency can lead to big problems.

    Read up on it if you're curious, but other than that I'd suggest keeping a variety of friends/whoever (a SO certainly helps) to avoid overexposure to one person and keep yourself grounded. But that doesn't mean you have to treat the main friend differently.

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  • Boojum

    Hmmmm... Yeah, I agree with Nikki on the love songs bit.

    It's great to have a friend you feel totally simpatico with though. Most of us never experience that. Treasure it.

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  • nikkiclaire

    That sounds cool. Never had such a close friend. That must be nice but the love songs stuff is a bit abnormal.

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