See the thing is that you are allowing yourself to look like a dumb ass. You need to relax. Instead, allow yourself to be yourself. Be a little more open and blunt with people. I know from experience, cause i use to act and think the same way. I didn't like it...So i changed my attitude. Became more confident. You shelter yourself from the world a little to much. Making your self look like a timid, shy, "dumb ass".. You know you're not any of those things, so why have people think you are? That's embarrassing. If you project yourself as a strong, independent, confident woman people like the from work will want to ask you out and try to get to know you on that one on one personal level... Have more fun. Discover who you are. Become one with yourself :) Don't forget to laugh. There is nothing better than having a good laugh at yourself. If someone is looking at you like your crazy to just be sitting there laughing, just flip them off and continue to laugh.
I agree. I wish I weren't such a nervous wreck all the time, and yeah, my life is kinda sheltered. But I kinda did it to myself. You're right. The only way for things to get better is if I change. No more of this timid, shy, 'dumb ass' little girl nonsense. :p And it is embarrassing hearing people muttering things about me that I know aren't true. Especially when its people that at one point you actually believed were decent.
Thanks for your response. I really appreciate that you cared enough to give me one! :)
No worries :) ... N don't forget..PEOPLE suck. They always have, and they always will. Be exactly who you are. If people don't like it...Just remember that they suck. ::)) and move on through your day with no worries.
Is it normal that I I have to put on an act?
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See the thing is that you are allowing yourself to look like a dumb ass. You need to relax. Instead, allow yourself to be yourself. Be a little more open and blunt with people. I know from experience, cause i use to act and think the same way. I didn't like it...So i changed my attitude. Became more confident. You shelter yourself from the world a little to much. Making your self look like a timid, shy, "dumb ass".. You know you're not any of those things, so why have people think you are? That's embarrassing. If you project yourself as a strong, independent, confident woman people like the from work will want to ask you out and try to get to know you on that one on one personal level... Have more fun. Discover who you are. Become one with yourself :) Don't forget to laugh. There is nothing better than having a good laugh at yourself. If someone is looking at you like your crazy to just be sitting there laughing, just flip them off and continue to laugh.
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I agree. I wish I weren't such a nervous wreck all the time, and yeah, my life is kinda sheltered. But I kinda did it to myself. You're right. The only way for things to get better is if I change. No more of this timid, shy, 'dumb ass' little girl nonsense. :p And it is embarrassing hearing people muttering things about me that I know aren't true. Especially when its people that at one point you actually believed were decent.
Thanks for your response. I really appreciate that you cared enough to give me one! :)
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No worries :) ... N don't forget..PEOPLE suck. They always have, and they always will. Be exactly who you are. If people don't like it...Just remember that they suck. ::)) and move on through your day with no worries.
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Oh yeah, there's no doubt about that! People do suck. Lol. And thanks again! :)