One thing you'll have to understand about almost every guy that's single, is that you're not the only girl he's talking to.
Horrible, right? Not really. How most men date is by stacking their options before choosing which one is worth the effort; this method of dating is time consuming depending on the needs of the women they lined up and what he finds valuable in them. For example, if a guy values appearance over character, then all he'll spend most of his time, money, and energy on the hotter girls and put all others on his maybe list; same goes for character, or anything else he seeks (it depends on the guy).
What you need to do is not take it so seriously. Online dating is hooking up to the majority, and sex will be on the mind of many; so hoping you'll find Mr.Right is very slim. On the plus side, the fact that he makes the effort to text you means he's interested, but there's probably another girl before you that's he's on the fence about.
IIN that I haven't seen him in over 2 months?
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One thing you'll have to understand about almost every guy that's single, is that you're not the only girl he's talking to.
Horrible, right? Not really. How most men date is by stacking their options before choosing which one is worth the effort; this method of dating is time consuming depending on the needs of the women they lined up and what he finds valuable in them. For example, if a guy values appearance over character, then all he'll spend most of his time, money, and energy on the hotter girls and put all others on his maybe list; same goes for character, or anything else he seeks (it depends on the guy).
What you need to do is not take it so seriously. Online dating is hooking up to the majority, and sex will be on the mind of many; so hoping you'll find Mr.Right is very slim. On the plus side, the fact that he makes the effort to text you means he's interested, but there's probably another girl before you that's he's on the fence about.