Is it normal that i have us size 6 and 6.2 inch hands..

So I am a male and 19 years old. I always saw that both my hands and feet were smaller than my friends in school. I never cared about it untill I a few weeks ago , when I got rejected when I asked a girl from my course class out for a drink... As a reason she literally told me that my hands and feet are not manly enough for her. I honestly got really insecure when that happened, since it is the firs time someone told me that. But when I took a closer look I really start to ask if there is something wrong with my health.. :(

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  • JD777

    I didn’t know there were numbered sizes for hands in the US. I just see small, med, and large gloves. I never heard of a woman who cared that much about hand size. Maybe some do, but screw it, you got what you got.

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    • FEFE1001

      I searched up what the average size of a male hand was(from top of your middle finger till your wrist) in Europe. And saw that I was almost 1.4 inches under the average.
      For gloves Small is a bit too big for me(The lower end of the gloves slides down to my wrist), but thank god North Face made their gloves a little bit with style so no and actually sees that I am wearing oversized gloves...

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  • Boojum

    Guys tend to focus initially on the physical attributes of women, whether it's breasts, butt, legs, general size, or whatever. Women tend to be more interested in less tangible aspects of guys - or at least that's what many want to believe. But just as some guys are obsessed with boob-size, there are some women for whom a guy's thighs, his chest, his hands, or some other physical characteristic is a huge factor in whether they find him attractive.

    The woman you spoke to has the right to prefer whatever she wants, and she also has the right to be blunt about telling you that you don't meet her standards. (Although I suspect she'd probably be annoyed if she hit on a guy and he rejected her and told her that her tits were too small, her butt too huge, or whatever.)

    You have the body you have, and there's only a limited amount you can do to change it. So you now have the choice of either getting obsessed about this perceived shortcoming, or accepting that you are as you are, and moving on.

    In any case, a complete idiot with teeny, tiny little hands ended up becoming President of the USA, so it's obvious that even freakishly small hands aren't an impediment to getting what you want out of life.

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    • McBean

      Many, many women have told me that they look for symmetry of guy's wrists.

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      • Boojum

        I find that interesting.

        I have heard that thick/powerful/strong wrists do things for some women, but I've never heard that symmetry is important.

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        • McBean

          Hmmmm. Since wrists are an attention zone, I suppose lack of symmetry would detract from the thick/powerful/strong perception.

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    • FEFE1001

      I am trying to Just forget about it and move on. My main concern was how 1 women could fuck up my insecurity so much. I never had an issue with it with both friends as ex girlfriends. Thanks for the comment though!

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      • Tealights

        Was the girl super hot, and did you really want to successfully ask her out?

        I've noticed men tend to value women more depending on appearances rather than character a lot of times, due to them being more attractive thus making her more desired. Nothing wrong with this, it's just how we animals work, but you're a human sir, you live in a house and shit, you ain't hut'in it in the middle of nowhere anymore, you got options.

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        • FEFE1001

          Wouldn't say that she was super hot, just attractive in a normal way. I honestly thought these types of girls were not that picky about such things, oh boy was I wrong.

          I think you have a really good point, my study has an 25/75 ratio for male/female. So yeah these women in my study do indeed have more attention.

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          • Tealights

            I wish. Our society rewards beauty, and attractive men/women know this all too well that they have the advantage.

            Since you're in University/college still, it makes for great bonding opportunities, especially if your study is male-dominated, most of the women just want to be respected in their field. Hopefully, when your class has a group project, ask a girl you find cute/normal if she wants to pair up and get to know her while completing the project. It's a 50/50 chance you'll get a girlfriend or at least a good female friend who can help you find someone.

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  • Tealights

    She sounds like a bitch.

    Honestly, if you can live a normal life and reach your goals, then your hand size doesn't matter. Eventually, you'll met a good woman who wont care either. Please don't be discourage over stank bitches, they're the ones who will get burned out from many men, and go searching for guys like you when their in their 30's to 40's with kids with different dads. You didn't miss out.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Nothing wrong with your health. It's just the way the genetic dice roll. Forget about her. You'll eventually meet a woman who doesn't care about hands and feet.

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  • trexagireve

    Some girls thing that the size of hands are related to the size of your genitals, just prove her that she is wrong

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