Is it normal that i have urges to hurt people and make them obey me?

Seek help. This isn't normal.

It sounds like you might be a sadist, or would like to be a dom/master. Look into bdsm and find out, otherwise maybe you need psychological help.

Yeah, you need to get help.

Contact help please, this isnt normal at all!

Definitely not normal. I bet you'd love the 1990 movie _Misery_ with Kathy Bates & James Caan. Your question pretty much sums up that flick in a nutshell. No pun intended.

Do unto others.
As you would have done to you.
( with a few exceptions )

lol, why a whining toddler?

No, I have never fantasized about what you're describing, but when I was much younger I used to fantasize about turning into a werewolf.

I assume you have suffered more than your share of abuse, neglect and bullying in the course of your life. However, focusing so much on your hateful feelings and desire for vengeance and vindication won't do you much good. Holding onto hate and resentment is like drinking poison and expecting your enemy to die. The hate will grow inside you like a cancer. Also watch out about with whom you this share this shit, as people will judge you and gossip about you, because you scare them, and that's not a good thing.

Therapy can help a lot!

I’ve had it before, but it’s not normal. You’re in psychological pain and need help.

What if they break free and kick your ass? Wouldn't be so fun then now would it

I concur with the above replies. Please contact a mental health professional as soon as possible.