Is it normal that i have urges to hurt people and make them obey me?

i usually fantasize about breaking someone's legs and kidnapping them just so i can abuse them and make them suffer. is this normal?

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Comments ( 16 )
  • IrishPotato

    Seek help. This isn't normal.

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  • Psychopath666

    It sounds like you might be a sadist, or would like to be a dom/master. Look into bdsm and find out, otherwise maybe you need psychological help.

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  • Scorpbeing

    Yeah, you need to get help.

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  • RedFlag79

    Contact help please, this isnt normal at all!

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  • Definitely not normal. I bet you'd love the 1990 movie _Misery_ with Kathy Bates & James Caan. Your question pretty much sums up that flick in a nutshell. No pun intended.

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  • TerriAngel

    Do unto others.
    As you would have done to you.
    ( with a few exceptions )

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  • fak1234

    lol, why a whining toddler?

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  • RoseIsabella

    No, I have never fantasized about what you're describing, but when I was much younger I used to fantasize about turning into a werewolf.

    I assume you have suffered more than your share of abuse, neglect and bullying in the course of your life. However, focusing so much on your hateful feelings and desire for vengeance and vindication won't do you much good. Holding onto hate and resentment is like drinking poison and expecting your enemy to die. The hate will grow inside you like a cancer. Also watch out about with whom you this share this shit, as people will judge you and gossip about you, because you scare them, and that's not a good thing.

    Therapy can help a lot!

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    • fak1234

      i don't mind if they gossip about me. i just came here to see if my condition is normal.

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  • I’ve had it before, but it’s not normal. You’re in psychological pain and need help.

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    • fak1234

      you've had it before? have you managed to fix this?

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  • Whatintarnation

    What if they break free and kick your ass? Wouldn't be so fun then now would it

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    • Himars11

      I don’t think the logistics was the question. And no you should talk to a therapist about this, there are numerous sites to find them in your area, wherever that might be.

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      • Whatintarnation

        Apparently, sarcasm is a dying art.

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    • fak1234

      yeah, kinda sad.

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  • WhiteyBeefcake

    I concur with the above replies. Please contact a mental health professional as soon as possible.

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