Is it normal that i have urges to b with men too?

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I love my girlfriend more than anything in the whole world and I even want to marry her soon but she doesn't know I'm bisexual and I have a HUGE urge to b with men to but JUST sexually. I've tried to control it but I still have the urges. Is it justified because I can't help the urges? And because I truly love her is it ok to try and relieve the urges and keep it a secret so I can b with her?

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Based on 13 votes (8 yes)
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  • ever.so.inocent...
    12 years ago

    personally i want my boyfriend to be with men , i find it really sexy, and the thought turns me on alot.
    shame my bf isnt like you .

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  • jman2000
    12 years ago

    Thx for replying back people, i didn't think other people were in the same situation as me to. It SUX I love her more than anything but I've suppressed myself so much that I get so horny to the point that my heart starts to beat fast and I get kinda sweaty. It's like I LOVE having sex with her but no matter WHAT I do or how hard I try I have an urge to b with men but PURELY sexually I would never want to b in a relationship with one. I don't think I could ever have the heart to tell her. And I'm scared it would make her hate me or be disgusted by me :(

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  • LensVagen
    13 years ago

    Sorry stupid iPad make that all messed up

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  • LensVagen
    13 years ago

    The relationship will take it's toll.. You want to be one of these people that has kids and has to sneek around? I know lots of people that are in the same situation. They sneak around and they think because I'm a sorta openly masculine gay male, that I will help them out. There is another heart here.. HERS. You say you love her? You need to be open with her as you expect her to be open with you. You won't be happy and you are putting both you and her if continue to resist your eurges to the point where they spill over... And my risk I mean std's and more

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    U have to tell her. U can't have a relationship based on lies.

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  • aduusw
    13 years ago

    Dont tell her... That Might destroy your relationship... In case do you tell her... Tell is back what happened.

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  • daagomezmo
    13 years ago

    I´d think it´s normal but it´s wrong anyways. If you´re gonna marry her you should be one with that person and you should share your life with her. Tell her what you feel!

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