I'm amazed that so many people have the same issue I do! It's frustrating when people say that you 'just need to relax' or 'be comfortable with your partner'-- I'm very sexually confident and that hasn't helped at all!
The one thing that HAS helped is that I bought a vibrator (not as scary as you'd think!) and have started using it with my legs relaxed...not to be crude, but making sure everything's properly lubricated helps ALOT with this transition.
Is it normal that i have to completely tense my body to orgasm?!
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I'm amazed that so many people have the same issue I do! It's frustrating when people say that you 'just need to relax' or 'be comfortable with your partner'-- I'm very sexually confident and that hasn't helped at all!
The one thing that HAS helped is that I bought a vibrator (not as scary as you'd think!) and have started using it with my legs relaxed...not to be crude, but making sure everything's properly lubricated helps ALOT with this transition.
Good luck!!