Is it normal that i have theses thoughts about certain people ?

`Okay i don't know if you people think this is normal or not but let me know and tell me what you think.

Im only 19 and dont know how to deal with these thoughts i have. Okay so i guess you could say i have sick twisted thoughts but i cant help it. its just the way i feel.

So When ever i get into an argument with a person (specifically; someone i dont get along with)I for some reason have these thoughts where i want to kill him/her
i dont know why its just the way i feel. And When ever i hear about Some guy/girl kill someone on the news i think 'i could do better than that i can kill someone and get away with it.' i've always had this thing where i've wanted to prove people wrong and commit the perfect murder,Most people say that there is no such thing as a perfect murder. but i believe there is.

So vote and let me know what you guys think
Is it Normal to have these thoughts?

Is It Normal?
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  • I've heard an endless amount of people who think of killing when they're mad. One must remember, although we have evolved over the years and have become more civilized and (considerably) less savage, we are still a violent species. What seperates killers from other human beings is the capability of committing the crime. Do you think you are capable of killing someone? Think about it. Is it just a thought that runs through you head, or do you actually think you may do it someday? Is the urge so overbearing that you can't control it? If it is something you feel like may get out of control seek help, but keep in mind, humans are a violent species. We are the same creatures that rage wars and used to go to gladiator events in greek times. Violence is never the answer, but regardless, it is a part of our instincts.

    And, the thing about seeing people on the news, yeah, I do that too, sometimes. Like, if the person did a horrible job trying to get away with it, I always think to myself "I could've done that better."

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  • Normal. We are still animals, we're still just as violent and hedonistic as we've always been, the difference is our higher counsciousness tells us that violence isn't usually the answer.

    That said, these urges are still there, no matter how strong or weak they may be to the individual. So better, is it not, to entertain it as a fantasy. Kill that person in your head, kill them good. Then put your monster away and put on a happy face, and let go of your anger toward that person, you have already mentally vented about it. At least that's what Vasquez would say, I think he makes a pretty good argument. We all have that little monster in the back of our minds, and he gets hungry. You must feed him in a way that doesn't hurt anyone. :P (Oh, just go read Johnny the Homocidal Maniac, he says it better)

    But if you honestly worry that you can't control these urges and might hurt someone, please seek professional help for the sake of yourself in others. Fantasies aren't harmful, unless you bring them out into reality.

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  • With all the crime solving shows we have I think it's only inevitable that we put ourselves in the perspective of the murderer from time to time. Some do it more than others. It also seems pretty natural to think about ways of killing someone and getting away with it, perhaps because we are fed bologna about how we couldn't get away with murder if we tried. I think that's an overstatement. When I was a child, I wanted to be a phonebook murderer, just one time, despite my peaceful nature.

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  • I feel the same way sometimes. I've fantasized about various ways to kill people (only the ones I don't like). I could never actually do it though. Nothing is worth spending life in the slammer no matter what. I feel bad when I hear about innocent people being murdered in the news though.

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  • I think it's normal to a certain extent. I'm pretty sure we've all, at some point, felt the urge to end someone's life. I guess it's some kind of survival instinct.

    But even so, I urge you to find someone (a therapist or some sort) to talk about these thoughts with. They could be harmful in the long run.

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  • Iv`e met many people over the years that I think deserved killing. The trouble with murderis that you get put away for a very long time, & I don`t think anyone is worth serving time for.

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  • I feel the same way but I get back at by getting revenge but it isn't as elaborate as murder. It help me get over it.

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  • I voted as "not normal" just in case you actually thought of it LITERALLY. But if you didn't actually thought of it literally, then it's normal. Sometimes, it's just thoughts. Depending on how a person's emotional personality is, I think yours are extreme. People with extreme emotions often think and feel that way. I know I have. Especially when I'm angry. But then after thinking about it, I think it's just my thoughts.

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