Is it normal that i have these sexual fantasies?

I'm a 23 year old male virgin who spends at least two hours everyday jacking off to porn. My sexually frustrated state effectively means that I can get nothing done until I jack off to my heart's content on a daily basis. But once my state of sexual arousal has worn off, I'm reminded of the fact that I'm still the loser who all the other dudes used to pick on because he'd never had intercourse with a woman. Further complicating my misery is the fact that I'm uttery terrifed of women, having had the misfortune to have worked under an especially nasty one a couple of years ago. That means actually trying to approach women is a strict no for me. In fact,I've come to realise that most women inspire more fear in men than a snake would. But it dosen't end there. As my desire to get sexually intimate with another human gets increasingly more intense, I find myself gradually begining to project my sexual desires on attractive men that I see. There have even been times when I envy those jihadi suicide bombers who blow themselves up for the 70 virgins in Paradise that they've been promised. Being on the verge of enjoying those gorgeous women waiting for one in heaven must make the moment of detonation itself feel like sexual release, no?

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  • am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
    Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.

    I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!

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  • Sexual frustration is the pits. I'm in the same boat but I'm a woman. It seems the longer I go without it, I am fantasizing more and more, watching porn, etc. I think eventually I will have to do something about it or go crazy! I'm not a virgin but that is one of my fantasies (to be with one!) lol

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    • Ah, finally someone who understands my predicament. I have to say though that your fantasy is really unusual. Most women despise male virgins and wouldn't want to have anything to do with them sexually.

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