My take on this is that you're not lowering your expectations, you're gonna realise that your "expectations" are likely impossible to fulfill because they're built on the idea of a woman rather than what she honestly is.
Realising that your expectations aren't likely to ever be fulfilled is not the same as "accepting average". Do you only work with averages and extremes?
What I'm saying is that sooner or later you'll realise that you fell in love with who you thought she was. Once you come to terms with that, you'll be free of this cage you've built yourself.
Oh and OP, if you want to respond to the Sailor, at least reply to him - not me. He's not gonna get notified if you just @ his username.
IIN that I have the same crush for over 3 years?
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My take on this is that you're not lowering your expectations, you're gonna realise that your "expectations" are likely impossible to fulfill because they're built on the idea of a woman rather than what she honestly is.
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So, what you two are saying is accept average ?
@thegypsysailor Humans are firstly attracted to appearance, and after that comes personality. Not the other way around.
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No.
Realising that your expectations aren't likely to ever be fulfilled is not the same as "accepting average". Do you only work with averages and extremes?
What I'm saying is that sooner or later you'll realise that you fell in love with who you thought she was. Once you come to terms with that, you'll be free of this cage you've built yourself.
Oh and OP, if you want to respond to the Sailor, at least reply to him - not me. He's not gonna get notified if you just @ his username.