Is it normal that i have strong gay fantasies when i'm really horny?

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Ok, I'm a young heterosexual male. I've never in my life done anything gay with any man. However, I've had semi-gay thoughts and continue to have them regularly, but ONLY when I'm watching porn and I'm really horny and have a rock-hard erection. Now, what's weird and what concerns me is that when I'm NOT horny, (just "normal" and not aroused at all), I NEVER, legit never have sexual gay thoughts or fantasies. In fact, whenever I'm NOT horny, gay thoughts usually disturb me or make me shake my head in disgust. BUT, when I'm horny and watching porn and my penis is throbbing hard, I have raging sexual gay fantasies and very strong urges to suck dick and get fucked in my ass. Why I'm posting this is: I can't wrap my head around it.... Why does this only happen when I'm extremely aroused, horny, and watching porn?

P.S. This is serious. As fake, stupid, or immature as it may seem, I'm legitimately serious. I can't wrap my head around why I am like this at very certain specific times and yet never any other time. Do not leave any rude answers. This is a serious, legitimate question. Thank you all for the help. I truly appreciate it. Thank you again.

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  • GreyWulfen
    9 years ago | pl

    You know, sexuality is a fluid scale. You can legitimately be 95% straight and 5% gay. Or be sexually attracted to one gender and emotionally to another. Per definition, you would be bisexual with a strong tendency towards heterosexual. But then again, that's just our concept of sexuality, do words really matter? Do whatever you like.

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  • BuckyMcFucky
    9 years ago | pl

    FYI, I've never had a crush on any guy. I've never done anything sexual at all with a guy. Let me repeat myself, AGAIN, this is ONLY when I'm horny and very sexually aroused. THIS DOES NOT HAPPEN AT ANY OTHER TIMES.

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  • Thatguy777
    9 years ago | pl

    Bi

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago | pl

    You're not straight if you're having gay fantasies.

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  • fr332B
    9 years ago | pl

    The problem is that most people conflate romantic interest with sex. You may be aroused and sexually attracted to other males but have no interest in them outside of "normal" friendship.

    I had a friend once who literally could not get it up with another guy unless there was a girl involved in which case not only could he get it up he was a lot of fun :). You sound like you might be a 2 or 3 on the kinsey scale.

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  • Blade884
    9 years ago | pl

    Rose above has a good point, and that is probably part of it. I think you are just being honest and are saying how you feel. I think a lot of people feel the same way. You are probably just oversexual, and almost everything excites you I bet.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago | pl

    Well Buckarooo, I suspect that you're watching too much porn. Not unlike drugs and alcohol, pornography can leave the frequent viewer with a tolerance that builds up over time causing said viewer to need progressively more explicit images for the same high level of arousal.

    Then again, you might have bisexual or gay tendencies that you're repressing. The desire to fit into the role that society has made for us can be quite strong. Either way, pornography isn't the best thing for you, my friend.

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    • BuckyMcFucky
      9 years ago | pl

      Honestly, I think you're right. there was a period of time when I didn't watch any porn for two months and I didn't have any gay or bisexual thoughts whatsoever. And I've noticed to that the categories of porn I tend to watch now are well....very very kinky. So thank you Rose. You really helped me open my eyes and figure out the reality. I'm gonna lay off the porn.

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago | pl

    It's a difficult question to answer. I would imagine there's more to being gay than just fantasies. I would assume being gay also involves having an actual crush or romantic feelings of love toward members of one's own sex.

    I guess you'd have to hear opinions from people who claim to be gay otherwise it's all just speculation.

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