Well, I'm TRYING to convince people to stop having sex/valuing it so much, and failing at it. So what?
I swear to you I see no difference between the color thing and the sexuality/religion thing. And just so you don't think I'm THAT stupid, I'm not trying to make anyone change their sexual orientation, because I know that's impossible, I'm trying to make people change their sexual behavior/the position that sex occupies in their priorities list.
A lot of Christians say their mission is to convert everyone, just sayin'.
Well why are you trying to make people stop having sex? should a couple in a relationship stop? should a married couple stop? should friends with benefits stop? what is your angle here and why do you care what others value? why are you telling other people they shouldn't value the things they do?
A lot of christians are stupid bigoted assholes, just sayin'.
(not all obviously, some are great human beings. Converters are assholes though.)
no I never said nor suggested anything outside of sex between two consenting adults was okay.
And I'd call that assisted suicide anyway.
If you love someone and enjoy sex then it can be just as fulfilling, of not more so, then cuddling, kissing or any other physical intimacy two people can do. It's a way of expressing love the same way hugging someone or saying "I love you" is. For some people it isn't though, either because they don't connect love and sex or they dislike sex. Both are fine. But for some people lack of sex means lack of love between them (especially if they were having sex then stopped.)
Getting horny is a normal biological occurrence that even asexual's will experience. SHaring that intimacy with your partner rather than whacking one out in the shower will always be seen as an expression of love within the correct circumstances.
See how people (myself included) are simply incapable of being coherent? Calling it "assisted suicide" is just an excuse to say it's okay, but if you're against murder, you're against murder, and "assited suicide" is mutual murder.
Nope. It has absolutely no rational meaning behind it, it's just two people being as animalistic as they possibly can and calling it "love" as an excuse to justify their backwards behavior. While I understand that humans are forever trapped in what I call "evolutive limbo", it only makes sense that we try to leave behind the animalistic things in favor of the rational things, and not the other way around. Cuddling, kissing, saying "I love you" or any, ANY other form of truly expressing love has a rational meaning behind it, like wanting to make someone feel safe and proctected (for cuddling), saying you'd like to feed a person and therefore prevent their death (evolutive meaning behind kissing)etc. However, the only possible meanings I see in sex are "I think your genes would make for good offspring, I'll use you to keep our species alive, even though there are already 7 billion people on Earth" and "I love it when our brains liberate so many chemicals it's impossible to think straight, let's get high on hormones."
Responding to a biological occurence, be it with assistence or not, doesn't sound very romantic to me. Maybe it'll always be seen as an expression of love, but even though I still have a long way to go with my theories, losing hope that one day people will see me as "ahead of my time" is not an option.
Is it normal that I have no sex drive?
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Well, I'm TRYING to convince people to stop having sex/valuing it so much, and failing at it. So what?
I swear to you I see no difference between the color thing and the sexuality/religion thing. And just so you don't think I'm THAT stupid, I'm not trying to make anyone change their sexual orientation, because I know that's impossible, I'm trying to make people change their sexual behavior/the position that sex occupies in their priorities list.
A lot of Christians say their mission is to convert everyone, just sayin'.
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Well why are you trying to make people stop having sex? should a couple in a relationship stop? should a married couple stop? should friends with benefits stop? what is your angle here and why do you care what others value? why are you telling other people they shouldn't value the things they do?
A lot of christians are stupid bigoted assholes, just sayin'.
(not all obviously, some are great human beings. Converters are assholes though.)
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To put it simply: sex with no love = using someone as a sex toy; sex with love = animalistic and degrading form of "expressing love".
'Kay, I might be a stupid bigoted asshole, then, even though I'm not religious :D
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sex with love = way of physically expressing love between two people
sex without love = MUTUAL and (hopefully) consentual. Totally legal and not anyone's business but between the two consenting adults.
You might be, hard to gauge how bigoted someone is without meeting them in person.
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How is it a way of expressing love? Why choose sex over any other way of expressing love?
So mutual, consensual murder is okay to you?
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no I never said nor suggested anything outside of sex between two consenting adults was okay.
And I'd call that assisted suicide anyway.
If you love someone and enjoy sex then it can be just as fulfilling, of not more so, then cuddling, kissing or any other physical intimacy two people can do. It's a way of expressing love the same way hugging someone or saying "I love you" is. For some people it isn't though, either because they don't connect love and sex or they dislike sex. Both are fine. But for some people lack of sex means lack of love between them (especially if they were having sex then stopped.)
Getting horny is a normal biological occurrence that even asexual's will experience. SHaring that intimacy with your partner rather than whacking one out in the shower will always be seen as an expression of love within the correct circumstances.
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See how people (myself included) are simply incapable of being coherent? Calling it "assisted suicide" is just an excuse to say it's okay, but if you're against murder, you're against murder, and "assited suicide" is mutual murder.
Nope. It has absolutely no rational meaning behind it, it's just two people being as animalistic as they possibly can and calling it "love" as an excuse to justify their backwards behavior. While I understand that humans are forever trapped in what I call "evolutive limbo", it only makes sense that we try to leave behind the animalistic things in favor of the rational things, and not the other way around. Cuddling, kissing, saying "I love you" or any, ANY other form of truly expressing love has a rational meaning behind it, like wanting to make someone feel safe and proctected (for cuddling), saying you'd like to feed a person and therefore prevent their death (evolutive meaning behind kissing)etc. However, the only possible meanings I see in sex are "I think your genes would make for good offspring, I'll use you to keep our species alive, even though there are already 7 billion people on Earth" and "I love it when our brains liberate so many chemicals it's impossible to think straight, let's get high on hormones."
Responding to a biological occurence, be it with assistence or not, doesn't sound very romantic to me. Maybe it'll always be seen as an expression of love, but even though I still have a long way to go with my theories, losing hope that one day people will see me as "ahead of my time" is not an option.