While I'd love to do a character study of you and your psyche, what stages of your development into adolescense had an effect on your hormonal make-up, I don't think its possible to really do so without talking to you in person for lengthy periods and really getting to know you. Without doing that I can't pass any judgement as to whether this is normal or not. But you sound like a unique individual and I'm a big fan of individuals. Be true to yourself thats all that matters.
i dont know. i'v had the same fetishes since i was a child. ive never had any interest in sex and, in high school when everyone else was obsessing over it i used to feel embarrassment because i knew wasnt developing the same way as them. i never wanted to talk about sex but that's all they ever talked about. i just didnt have a sex drive (or at least not for sex). my friends used to tell me that one day i would want it, but here i am, five years later, still with no desire for sex. i tried to force myelf to masterbate to sex once but i couldsn't get wet without my fetishes.
im not embarrassed about it anymore. just confused which is why i wanted to know if anyone else was the same way.
btw, thanks for your words at the end. are you a psychologist? just curious because you sound like one. and sorry for the baf grammer. my computer' s not working so i'm forced to tupe on my phone.
This was my theory on how sexuality developed! Though a lot of people do not really agree with this theory. Since most people think everyone is born set with whatever sexuality they are going to have for the rest of their lives.
That argument is nonsense. Its absurd anyone has ever presented it to begin with. If people in those fields are arguing this they should not be in that field. People are a lot deeper.
Its like saying the nerd is JUST a nerd. Its not like they only fit one category. People are very complicated creatures. This would be the same as putting someone in a stereotype.
All blacks steal and all Mexicans in the US are wetbacks. Well clearly that is bull shit. We do not all fit stereotypes. Characters on shows and tv might but people do not always fit a category. Granted some do but that is not 100%.
We also have people who come from bad homes but they do not always turn out as bad as their family. A rapist having a son does not breed a rapist. You can not damn a child for something that happened before they were born. They did not choose to be born into that family and they did not choose who raised them.
Is it normal that I have no interest in sex only fetishes?
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While I'd love to do a character study of you and your psyche, what stages of your development into adolescense had an effect on your hormonal make-up, I don't think its possible to really do so without talking to you in person for lengthy periods and really getting to know you. Without doing that I can't pass any judgement as to whether this is normal or not. But you sound like a unique individual and I'm a big fan of individuals. Be true to yourself thats all that matters.
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i dont know. i'v had the same fetishes since i was a child. ive never had any interest in sex and, in high school when everyone else was obsessing over it i used to feel embarrassment because i knew wasnt developing the same way as them. i never wanted to talk about sex but that's all they ever talked about. i just didnt have a sex drive (or at least not for sex). my friends used to tell me that one day i would want it, but here i am, five years later, still with no desire for sex. i tried to force myelf to masterbate to sex once but i couldsn't get wet without my fetishes.
im not embarrassed about it anymore. just confused which is why i wanted to know if anyone else was the same way.
btw, thanks for your words at the end. are you a psychologist? just curious because you sound like one. and sorry for the baf grammer. my computer' s not working so i'm forced to tupe on my phone.
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Haha no I'm not a psychologist although I just re read my original comment and i can see how you thought that! Lol
This was my theory on how sexuality developed! Though a lot of people do not really agree with this theory. Since most people think everyone is born set with whatever sexuality they are going to have for the rest of their lives.
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It's the great "nature vs nurture" argument
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That argument is nonsense. Its absurd anyone has ever presented it to begin with. If people in those fields are arguing this they should not be in that field. People are a lot deeper.
Its like saying the nerd is JUST a nerd. Its not like they only fit one category. People are very complicated creatures. This would be the same as putting someone in a stereotype.
All blacks steal and all Mexicans in the US are wetbacks. Well clearly that is bull shit. We do not all fit stereotypes. Characters on shows and tv might but people do not always fit a category. Granted some do but that is not 100%.
We also have people who come from bad homes but they do not always turn out as bad as their family. A rapist having a son does not breed a rapist. You can not damn a child for something that happened before they were born. They did not choose to be born into that family and they did not choose who raised them.
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"we need to talk about kevin" is a great book/movie which explores this notion.
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Didn't read the book that that was a good movie :)