Is it normal that i have no idea what turns a girl on about a guy?

[GIRLS ONLY] Guys are really blatant about what they like about girls. Sexually speaking, your vagina is of primary interest to most straight men. What exactly do straight females want sexually from guys? What I mean is when a straight girl decides that a guy sexually excites her, what is it about him that is sexually arousing her? And, if you say, his penis, ladies, please explain what a man's penis means to you and to your sexual fulfillment. Why not just use a dildo? What is your sexual fantasy about being with a guy and is it really getting you off sexually or are you getting a good deal of satisfaction from just pleasing your guy sexually with your body and not concerned about having orgasms yourself? Are ur sexual needs more physical, emotional, or mental?

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  • well 1st im a guy so u may not take me seriously, but im kinda girl, so maybe. but the way i see it is there are 2 main factors/or maybe categories that come into play on what "turns u on". First would be the more physical/primal urges and lust. u know the kinda shallow, but still potent side of ur sexuality. #2 is the mental aspect of it, for me its making my partner aroused or turned on. if shes horny, and from what im doing, it makes my twice are horny. kinda like what "kj" was saying about a "vibe" that intangible feeling u get when what ur doing is turning on ur partner, i fuking luv it. XD

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  • well hmm.. there's many things that sexual turn me on about men. I think in general there is just certain people you get a "vibe" with ya kno? like u just kno u both want eachother and when I get that vibe, deff turns me on to wanting him more.

    with my bf, I had a crush on him for years but I was always underage so flirting was as far as it went for ever. now that I am legal and we are together it's just his love that makes me want him ya kno? like knowing that this man who is crazy about me and vise versa is the biggest turn on of um all! and knowing his penis so well is another one I love it:)

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  • Ya I think the mental part. Like, hearing them making noises and feeling them squirm KNOWING that they like it. Then physical could be like, "does he brake the touch barrier?" or "where does he hold when he gives you a hug? Is it up by the chest or down in the lower back?" and then of course there's the "does he want you?" question.

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  • Well i get turned on by my guy friend's eyes they are such a deep blue kinda like mine but better and his smile
    Is so cute i get really turned on and we both like each other but wont admit
    It.. Lol

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    • So his eyeballs make you wet?

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    I am interested in responses, mostly from females, about how they feel about the issues I have mentioned. That's it. No biggie.

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