Oh honey. :/ It makes me sad to see a woman so afraid of her own body. Why does it make you feel awkward? Why does it make you feel anything other than awesome?
It's not that I'm afraid of my own body! How on Earth did you come to that conclusion?
I just don't want to try it. Literally - I never have and never will.
What is so awkward about having your husband touch you there then? I mean, you're more intimate with him than anyone else, what exactly is your hangup?
Not so much a hangup, as a dislike.
Perhaps it's something to do with my Asperger's, or maybe something deeper, but I just don't like the idea.
I mean, he must have touched me down below at least once - we were both virgins when we met up and...you get the picture.
But now, I also think it seems wrong. This society has forged a world corrupted by sex - and my husband and I are more than that. Sure, we're intimate, but even if he feels the push and pull of carnal desire, I just enjoy being close to him, lying against his chest and just listening to the soft beating of his heart.
He's the only friend I have, and he's so understanding.
If it weren't for him calling me in his lunch break, I'd forget to eat whilst he's at work, and he's a fantastic, amazing dad.
So sexually, I'm not worried. But I'm wondering if he is...
Is it normal that I have never masturbated, as a 24-year-old woman?
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Oh honey. :/ It makes me sad to see a woman so afraid of her own body. Why does it make you feel awkward? Why does it make you feel anything other than awesome?
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It's not that I'm afraid of my own body! How on Earth did you come to that conclusion?
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What is so awkward about having your husband touch you there then? I mean, you're more intimate with him than anyone else, what exactly is your hangup?
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Not so much a hangup, as a dislike.
Perhaps it's something to do with my Asperger's, or maybe something deeper, but I just don't like the idea.
I mean, he must have touched me down below at least once - we were both virgins when we met up and...you get the picture.
But now, I also think it seems wrong. This society has forged a world corrupted by sex - and my husband and I are more than that. Sure, we're intimate, but even if he feels the push and pull of carnal desire, I just enjoy being close to him, lying against his chest and just listening to the soft beating of his heart.
He's the only friend I have, and he's so understanding.
If it weren't for him calling me in his lunch break, I'd forget to eat whilst he's at work, and he's a fantastic, amazing dad.
So sexually, I'm not worried. But I'm wondering if he is...