Is it normal that I have never masturbated, as a 24-year-old woman?

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  • bleach_baby
    11 years ago | pl

    I don't see anything "admirable" about not masturbating. Bizarre comment.

    OP, have you ever had an orgasm?

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    • VioletTrees
      11 years ago | pl

      I agree. It seems fine not to masturbate, but it's ridiculous to call it admirable.

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      • drbishop
        11 years ago | pl

        Explanation? A'ight. Experiencing awesome feelings through your genitals was always a pair game for me. I am a guy and believe it or not I never masturbate if I am in a relationship, if not then ofc sometimes but rarely. Same with my current lady (whom I also admire) who stopped masturbating since we moved in together, because of the very same reason aforementioned. So to sum up, I admire women who rather f**k than masturbate, because her man gives much more pleasure to her than anything else. Actually I meant it only to the first part of the question. Not letting your husband touching you there is kind of strange. Cheers.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago | pl

          I don't want my husband touching me there...it makes me feel really awkward. I touch him though.

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          • shade_ilmaendu
            11 years ago | pl

            Oh honey. :/ It makes me sad to see a woman so afraid of her own body. Why does it make you feel awkward? Why does it make you feel anything other than awesome?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              11 years ago | pl

              It's not that I'm afraid of my own body! How on Earth did you come to that conclusion?
              I just don't want to try it. Literally - I never have and never will.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      I don't know - I think I had a really good orgasm shortly after I started having sex (my husband is my first relationship) and it was really nice for both of us.
      But I don't know...it's really hard to tell. I think I do have orgasms when it's really gentle, but I really just enjoy the closeness of being with another person (a guy!!! :D) as I've been with no friends and just my family for most of my life.
      Also, being with my husband is so sweet, he's one of those immensely gentle guys; kind, close and adorable.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Yes, I have had orgasms with my husband - he's the only guy I've ever had, and I like it. Not so much for the carnal pleasure, but for closeness and affection.

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      • bleach_baby
        11 years ago | pl

        How do you have orgasms without him stimulating your genitals? I'm not being rude just genuinely curious.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago | pl

          Well...I'm not sure if they are orgasms exactly, I just like being close to him (he's the only one who's ever understood my AS, aside from my parents).
          And he doesn't touch me - he just begins intercourse and that's it.

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