Is it normal that i have feelings for a 20 year old man?

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I am a 46 year old woman,and I've been going to a center for people with issues. Well,there is this guy there and I think I am in love with him. He is only 20. Every time I see him,I get really excited,and my heart starts racing. I have sexual feelings for him really bad. I feel like it is wrong and inappropriate to have these feelings towards him. Is it normal to feel this way towards this person?

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  • _ItsScience
    6 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal but it's not love.
    It's infatuation, or an intense crush. Something about him intrigues you mentally and sexually. It will pass, im sure.

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome
    6 years ago

    If the sexes were reversed there'd be massive outrage.

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    • sillygirl77
      6 years ago

      yep

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  • EccentricWeird
    6 years ago

    You'll never have me, HOO hoo hooo!

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  • Honkysaurusrex
    6 years ago

    Age does not matter, as long as the person is not under 18 age does not matter. I would look deep down within yourself for a few days and ask, is this real or just a momentary feeling?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    You're old enough to be his mother.

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    • Murun
      6 years ago

      Aye, simple maths but that's not actually a problem is it.

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      • SmokeEverything
        6 years ago

        Old enough to be his mother who got pregnant too young, gotta take that into consideration.

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  • youwillgotohell
    6 years ago

    You will be miserable if you even think of such relationship. And i don't even think what you are feeling is love. The best thing you could do is to get over it as fast as possible. Men at that age are too stupid to even know what love is and have ever changing feeling because its mostly lust there is for them. Let's say even if he does like you back, it will not last for long. Because boys in their 20s mostly want to just play around and their interest change rapidly. When they lose interest they will just leave.

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