That is so not true. It's possible that she only likes her boyfriend, but very few people can live a lifetime with the one person they LOVE with nary a thought of another, especially an attractive person they are exposed to daily. If OP gave into her desires for her co-worker and crossed the line (a very thin line indeed) then I couldn't agree with you more.
OP, if the thoughts of your co-worker are too invasive and you feel your relationship is at risk(and IF your current relationship is what matters most to you) I suggest finding ways to distance yourself from him.
IIN that I have dreams/get turned on when my coworker is around me?
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That is so not true. It's possible that she only likes her boyfriend, but very few people can live a lifetime with the one person they LOVE with nary a thought of another, especially an attractive person they are exposed to daily. If OP gave into her desires for her co-worker and crossed the line (a very thin line indeed) then I couldn't agree with you more.
OP, if the thoughts of your co-worker are too invasive and you feel your relationship is at risk(and IF your current relationship is what matters most to you) I suggest finding ways to distance yourself from him.