Is it normal that i have approach anxiety?

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I'm a 20 year old guy and I consider myself attractive. I'm in college and I see tons of attractive girls everyday. I'm not picky at all but when I see a girl and try to make eye contact they MAY look every once in a while but it's not enough to get me to approach them. I always see guys with girlfriends and holding hands and not to say that looks are everything but I know I look better than them. Also all of my guy and girl friends love me and think that I'm a really cool person. But even if I did approach a girl I wouldn't know what to say. Do I flat out ask "Can I get your number?" I always hear guys talking about the girls they talk to and the girls they've banged. But yet I'm a virgin. I'm not pressed on losing my virginity but I'm just a bit confused on how this whole thing works.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    You probably just don't know how to ask a girl out. That's completely normal. Or you might have an anxiety disorder, which is very common but not normal. I would suggest online dating.

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  • BeautifulDreamer612
    6 years ago

    This is totally normal and many people go through it. You sound like you have social anxiety. I too struggle with this. I'm 18 years old and have never even been on a date. I know I'm not ugly because I get offered modeling jobs constantly, but I'm just extremely shy. Maybe you should try online dating? Or you could be friends with a girl first and slowly hint at more? Lol idk I hope everything works out for you ❤️

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